What do girls look for in guys???

  • Allen
    20 years ago

    Well :) just wondering, what kind of qualities do girls look for in a guy that they want to fall in love with??

  • lostnloveless15
    20 years ago

    im with kelly on this one i like guys who have an outgoing personality , not cheap, is in football, and is funnier then hell!!!!!! i love to laugh

    i dont like brandon anymore

    keep in touch
    jackie
    mustlickbutt@yahoo.com i love my e-mail

  • More
    20 years ago

    my opinions are open..

    but a guy that most likely catch my attention is one who speaks up when he knows he need too.. love kids.. have big adorable eyes and smile.. and one who can make me smile........ cause i really dont wanna fake a smile..

  • Manders
    20 years ago

    There are so many different things that make another person fall for someone..

    I personally like it when a guy makes me feel special. is romantic at times.. but not all the time.. Like I am not into that make-out in public.. There is a time and a place.. I want a friend, and someone i can just have fun with. That will never judge me, or make me cry..

  • Allen
    20 years ago

    yeah Peter, but the thing is before you get to know a person/girl their look is the only thing available... I tend to find people's look changes as I get to know them better, does anyone else find that?? or is it just me??

    hmm... its a bit off the topic...

  • TC
    20 years ago

    her body? hmmm, nehhh, look in her eyes and look for a great smile, its never about the body thats lust not love

  • vanessarrr
    20 years ago

    EDITED

    sense of humor
    has to be polite
    takes risks but know their limits
    don't act snobbish
    simple
    smiles a lot
    lovely eyes
    a quiet, serious person
    sweet/romantic
    honest
    patient, especially with kids

    (a couple of them are like sesshomoru ^_^)

  • lostnloveless15
    20 years ago

    listen to victoria she right about everything she said i mostly look for a guy who is funny,honest and like to spend quality time with me.i dont really care for good looks but he still has to be cute.looks do change when your having fun.your the only guy that iv heard say that "looks change" thats kool.

    always, jackie

  • lostnloveless15
    20 years ago

    i like guys that know how to start a conver. when it need to be started

    loves to make to people laugh (me)

    he has to be cute

    loves music (i love it)

    and gives me a lot of attention.

    thats what i think i look for

  • kylee
    20 years ago

    if you wanna know look for the topic about what hirls love about their guy!

  • juss an allycat
    20 years ago

    I just can't go past a guy with a good sense of humour! but not the c o c k y tyoe though, thats just a mahor turn-off. I like guyz who appreciate who I am and my desicions. I like guyz who also understand me or at least make an effort and care for me. Oh yeah i dont worry too much bout lookz but uno the first thing u usually noticve bout a guys is their features! Its just the PERSONALITY that does it 4 meh!

    xxoo,
    alysse

  • Renea
    20 years ago

    Well...To me guys have to be Sweet,Considerate,they have to have beautiful eyes...the first thing i look at when i look at a guy is their Eyes,Teeth

  • Allen
    20 years ago

    Oh my, I didn't think I would see this post again :) arr, long time no see, its good that you've been resurrected :D:D:D

    Yeah, I think ALL the girls like funny guys... so what about the other half of the male population that is humor-challanged?? How I wish there is a humor class that I can attend to, I love making people laugh, see them smile... but yeah, sometimes my humor, just like my poetry inspiration, runs dry... :S oh well...

  • Kris Lynn
    20 years ago

    ok...First of all, a guys has to be respectful. Coming up to me with some lame pic up line just to get me in bed....NO! He has to have a job. A guy with no money is just looking for a girl to pay for all his %%%%. If he knows me better than i know myself (not in a stalkerish way) then thats a plus. A guy who will take you shopping...no he doesn't have to buy you stuff, but just for him to go with you....BIG plus. He's gotta take me out every now and then. I'm not the type to just sit at home and watch movies all the time. He's gotta know how to have fun, but i dont want an alcoholic. A guy that will hold your hand or put his arm around you in public...but not go to far with the PDA. I dont want to be told what to do...so if he looks at me and says "get me a drink"...then he can watch me get in the car and leave. He's gotta be somewhat smart. I dont need someone who didn't graduate...aint goin no where in life and doesn't understand anything. Can't be shorter than me. Since of humor is good, but not to the point where he is never serious. Gotta be able to hold a deep conversation, like about life, the world...etc. Gotta be a guy that like me....he doesn't want me to change anything about myself. Cant have a guy who spends more time getting ready than I do. A church goer is nice...but not mandatory. I want a guy who is willing to express his feelings toward me...not hide them. "The perfect guy won't turn me down,cut me down,or let me down." (that is in my poem..."The Perfect Guy") So i guess thats pretty much it. O and as far as looks go....green eyes are a definate yes.
    ~*~Christina~*~

  • Josiah Larson
    20 years ago

    Well iam a guy but,
    Here is what i look for in a girl.
    I look for how they would treat me
    will she love me and care for me?
    will she take risks?
    If she repects me
    If she makes me happy
    If shes is nice
    and not bossy,mean
    There are much more..

    Iam not a player, I dont see any reason why I would want to be one.
    I have been going out with the Wonderful girl now for 11 months 12 months in 2 weeks :):)
    Shes some thing speical
    any ways
    This is just my opinion:P

    -Josiah

  • SHYSTY23KO
    19 years ago

    i love........
    *Sweet
    *cute
    ***respectful!*
    *fun
    *comfortable
    *cuddly :)

  • browneyes
    19 years ago

    I hate to set standards for dating. I just want a guy who will love me for me. I don't want him to impress me. I want him to be totally natural. I normally fall in love with the funny, goofy sort of guys. I love cracking jokes here and there and I'm always laughing so I deffinately need someone to keep up! I guess I just want a guy who uses his brain for thoughts other than sex! : ) hah the perfect guy would be one who could keep a good conversation and be outstanding at sex!

    -BJ

  • ElegantlyWasted
    19 years ago

    As long as he's honest (which goes both ways of course) then that's all that is essential. Girls have so many things they want guys to be, it's like they've got a check list of criteria these specific guys must meet. And to me that's just crazy. Mmm so there we have it, what's the need to make guys so "perfect", is there really such a thing?

    -leaves-

  • browneyes
    19 years ago

    I think its safe to say I agree with you. But they are just answering the question. I'm sure many of them don't look for just a particular guy. There is no suck thing as a perfect guy. And if there was I wouldn't want to meet him! I like it better when they have their faults.

    -BJ

  • Ele
    19 years ago

    sensitive (but not too sensitive)
    fun
    trusting and trustworthy
    caring
    not fake

  • miss scooby
    19 years ago

    What i look for in a guy,
    well the first thing i look at in a guy is his eyes,
    its amazing what you can tell from someones eyes.
    I look for a smile, or a true sign of affection.
    a great personality,
    i also look at the guys hands,
    having a juice monkey guy doesnt appeal to me,
    i like guys who are tight with there family, and even mamma's boys
    i also look for strengh some who is independent and not needing to look to everyone to live his life,
    I like guys who are for real, and are able to throw on a pair if sweats and a t shirt and walk out the door in total confidence,
    if yah spend more time in the bathroom getting ready then me, we have a problem.
    I also look for the smell of a guy. You know when you walk past a guy, even if he isn't appealing to you and your knee's get weak from the way he smells, thats the best.
    and the most important one to me of all,
    if he has a sense of humour then it's definately a match. I love guys who are able to pull lil pranks, or make stupid lil jokes that arn't funny and laugh at them...i find that to be adorable.
    it's the inperfections of the special guy i fall in love with.

  • lostnloveless15
    19 years ago

    i look for everything from how they walk to how they show there love!!!!!!!! lol jk i look for a guy with a lot of jokes to tell to pass time. and i look for guys with blue eyes i looooooovvveee guys with blue eyes

  • helena
    19 years ago

    u cant chooz who u fall in love with!!