losing the person keeping you standing...

so ur losing the 1 person in ur life that u really do treasure, and she just doesn't realise that she means so much to you....she doesn't know how she holds u up through hard times, and she doesn't know how you'll be nothing without her....
she thinks its for the best, so wt do u do? when the convincing becomes useless....

Sunny--i think she already knows.
She just doesn't WANT to know.

But.....then again... I know nothing so w.e.
I need SLEEP.

hey megs,
Maybe this friend of yours really doesnt realize what she means to you. Do you ever tell her?

You say she holds you up during the bad times, do you do the same for her?

Have you asked this friend of yours whats actually wrong? and why she feels like she does? Why she is hurting? Maybe she feels so desperatly unhappy that she doesnt know what to do, so she might be making a mistake, but have you actually taken the time to ask her whats wrong? Why shes making such a desicion?

Maybe ur friend is just going through a rough time, maybe shes hurting more than she ever has before,

Maybe..........just maybe..........she has a reason.

Ever thought that she might be doing it for YOU?

Maybe she has been hurt too many times that she doesnt know who she is, where shes going, whats best for her, whats best for anybody, maybe her eyes sting from crying so much, have u ever asked her why shes crying???????????????????????

Maybe shes been broken for too long, maybe letting go of who she loves most, will stop you from hurting, if the worst comes to worst for this friend of yours....

~Geo

Well said, Geo.

Love you.

Megs, that's also my situation at the moment. But she knows.

yeah she knows 2, she just proved that....

What's happened with your friend then?

well i went away for a week last week, and i came back and she told me that things hve changed and she doesn't really see the real meaning of best mates any more, and id unno wt to do cos i always thort she saw that as the most important thing in her life, and now things have changed so much and we can't even tlk anymore, and i hate it cos i miss her so mcuh....

Well with me we've just grown more distant every day, and then she made this new group of friends that I wasn'ty "accepted" into, and she says we've both changed, and now were not very close so have nothing 2 takl about really and she feels awkward coming out with me and stuff so we don't really talk and i miss her too ... :(

hey maybe you just need to talk to her hun! you cant just let her walk away if she means this much to you!
tell her how u feel
sadie x

i am in the same situation. i thought this person was amazing and we would be there for each other always then a hurricane hit my home state and we were separated for a while. when i got back things started to change and they were big changes. then the people she was starting to hang with caused problems between me and her. we have finally realized that we both needed to talk about this new situation. it really helped and that is what i suggest you do also.

wow so many people have issues with their mates. well, Megs, this friend of yours, ive spoken to her, and she told me that she doesnt wanna lose you, however things atm are complicated. She also wanted me to tell you that she loves you, and told me tell u this "bffogaweaw"
whatever tht means ;)

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If you dont have the guts to tell her what she means to you then you swallow your pride and move on sister, leave that opening in your life for someone else..OR tell her and stop whinging and finally see where you really stand with her...

thank you so much for all ur help every1, if u need any advice then don't hesitate to contact me :) here to chat xxxxxxxxxx

Im sorry It happen to me t it hade

LOL huh??????????????????