EKKK i need help

okay heres the deal, i am in love i know it without a doubt. he seems to care for me greatly also. he lights up my face when i see him or even hear his name.............but....im 16 and hes 34............in my religion age is just a number so thats not the major part..tho it has an efect............

what i need help with ishe comes around alot (as one of my mothers friends) but lately i havent seen him, my mom and him got into a huge fight and hes scard to shoe up. i want a way to tell him how i truly feel with out sounding like a pathic love sick teenage girl.

i understand all that, and no he hasn't broken the law and wont. we have not slept together, he refuses too he says he is contented with just holding me in his arms, and that 2 years isn't that long of a wait.

not hiding it.....mom is fine with it. they are fighting because my mom does drugs and he quit and wont smoke with her anymore.

like?

dad is so far out of my life....a guy hits me only once and hes gone

to late........i'm already grown. have been since i was 11. and i know all that. If i could erase these feelings i would, i've tried. but they just keep comeing back even if i dont see him for a month or soo

Uh, Not to be mean or annything but no offence..

Your mom does drugs..you're dating a guy more than double ur age and ur in love?? how do you survive hun. if my life was like that i'd be in an insane hospital ;o
i mean.. woah and i thought my life was messed up.

And also hun, youre not really grown up if you HAVE TO make us believe you are and tell us that you are, we should be able to tell on our own by your maturity.

Dating someone as old as your dad is not mature. I have to agree with the rest of these people..Your dad wasnt there to love you growing up and theres a void inside that this man fills, you may deny it but when you are older and wiser one day you'll realise.

Ask your mom to take you to a shrink/therapist/counselor, talk about your problems hun we all want to help but being with a man that old is NOT healthy for your mind my dear.

I dont have anything against you i just hate to see you throw life away like that, get help please

Okay i see all your points and i realize that alot of you are (though i hate to admit it) right. the shink idea is a joke my mother thinks there is nothing wrong with me... the last three bf ive had have died, the last 2 girlfriends iv'e had are both in shadow mountin for their own problems, yet somehow my mom considers this tipaical..............but really i see all you points and maybe i am just looking for a father figure, but hell i doubt he'll show up any time soon ne way so fuck him. you know, maybe i do need to start dating guys my own age

krystie