It was my fault, could he forgive me?

  • Ashlee
    18 years ago

    Hey, i already posted this but no one really helped so i'm gonna try again lol. I'm 16 and my x is 18. We have been dating for 2 years and have became very close.. and we both love eachother more thenanything.. on new years eve his mom threw a party with people from his work.. I got totally trashed I dont remember anything but i was told I made out with a guy from my b/fs work infront of everyone or w/e and my b/f walked in.. he broke up with me and says he needs soem space... anyone have been in same spot or think he could forgive me if he says he loves me this much?

    Any advice anyone!?!??!!?! really heart broken right now..

  • Void
    18 years ago

    Hey. I really really hate to just repeat what she said, but I saw your last post, and the reason I didnt help is becuse i know the feeling of getting cheated on, and it's --*curse words that I will not display out of respect for this site*-- crushing!
    You really can't expect him to forgive you. There is a chance he will, but you need to tell him how you feel and your sorry and promise it'll never happen again. Remind him of how much he means to you..and when your done all that (if its not already done), give him his space and thinking room... I'm not sure you have any idea what it can do to a person.

    When my bf did that to me, everytime I looked at him I wanted to cry. Everytime I thought about the other girl I got so angry. It's been months,and there's still times when I see his face that I just can't stand he would have done that. No matter how empathetic someone is, I'm not sure anyone can really feel this sort of pain unless they've beenthrough the same. So you have to do your best to be really really understanding, don't turn it around on yourself and bring attention to yourself. Dont make him or anyone else feel like they should be feelin' sorry for you, 'cause it really d oesn't get you anywhere....
    I'm sorry if this post is harsh, i've tried my best not to explode on you..but if I come back here and realize that I was harsh, I'll delete this post and put some random word on it...

  • Emily parsons
    18 years ago

    If you were drunk the situation seems more understandable for you
    But for him and kiss is a kiss....and if it was in front of him...then he must of felt terrible...
    Ive had the same happen to me and i felt worthless for days...
    but anyway...i hope eveything works out
    if you both love each other...2 years is a long relationship ...things may well work out...but for now give him space and let him think
    xxxxx good luck xxxx

  • xXMyThanatosXx
    18 years ago

    beer strikes again

  • Ele
    18 years ago

    i cheated on my boyfriend and he forgave me straight away without question simply because he knew i loved him. so try letting him know that you do love him and are really sorry. we all do stupid things when we're drunk and let him know that you wouldnt have done that if you were sober. if he knows you love him he should find it easier to forgive ya. give him a couple of days to think though. if he loves you enough he'll forgive you because he won't wanna be without you

  • Brian King
    18 years ago

    why don't you ask him if he can forgive you instead of us, i mean how are we supposed to know.