picked up when he wants me. and dropped when he doesnt..

i love my bf i really do. but he seems to pick me up when he wants me and drops me when he doesnt. am i such a pushover that he can do this to me without me saying anything. i speak my mind most of the time. but im scared of losing him. i guess you could say hes gotten the best of me, but i hate this feeling of being on call. the other day he blew me off for his friend so i went out with some people and he called and said he was available and wanted to see me now. and iunno i just dont like being used like this. what should i say?

oh one more thing, he called tonight and said he wanted to see me tomorrow and when i said i was busy he went ape sh*t like i have nothing better to do then wait around for him to jump at the chance to chill.

from what i think he's a bit abusive... maybe try to talk to him about it and if he doesn't listen or do anything about it, i think you should leave him before things get even worst.

good luck x.x
-kelsie

From what it appears he has a good potential to be controling, which is a form of mental abuse. He also could be physically abusive, and you may just not know it yet. I'd leave him, he has no right to assume he gets time from you when he wish's it. Time should be shared not given or taken.