help me...

  • Kirsty
    18 years ago

    I've split with my girlfriend near xmas. she was my first girlfriend and my longest relationship we were together roughly 7 months.
    well now i dont know what to do...we have both moved on or so i think she is digging this guy and i am with this girl and now i feel her slipping away...
    its the first time this has hit me and its hit hard...i suppose i never really thought of not speaking to her or not seeing her but now everytime i try and see her shes busy or something now we hardly ever talk..
    i dont know what I'm trying to say
    i dont know how i feel...
    I'm not bothered about the fact she likes someone else infact im very very happy for her..i think they are both lovely people...
    and i am with someone at the moment but its not the same
    I know i shouldnt be comparing but...i want to feel the same again but i cant i do like this person yeah and i really want to feel the same but i cant....maybe its too early as i havent been with them long and maybe something will come of it
    i suppose i have to stop living in the past
    i dont know really i guess i just miss her company
    i miss talking to her telling her things
    i suppose i miss her being there for me
    i was always used to having her there with me and now i have to learn to stand on my own and it feels weird
    i dont know what i need help with but i need it
    sorry for boring you lol
    id appreciate the help
    thank you xxxxxxxxxxx

  • xXMyThanatosXx
    18 years ago

    Well Thats quite normally. Specially being unable to talk to her... But all I can say things will change with time. YOu had and still do have a deep connection with her, and now shes not so firmly placed in your life you feel like a piece is missing. The body never likes change. You just have to wait until you emotionally adapt as you are suppose to.

  • Kirsty
    18 years ago

    yeah i suppose thanks
    its just hard coz right now i feel i duna lost really!!
    and its hard not talking to her too

  • Kirsty
    18 years ago

    i think what im most scared about is....well........
    i dont think im ready to let her go
    but its for the best...... :S :(