Does he like mw back?

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    A month ago i posted a topic about i guy i really like in my study hall. just a few weeks ago i started to talki to him a little bit more then i used to because he would look at me and try to get my attention. Just today he layed his head down on the desk behind him so he was facing me (he's about 5 seats in front of me). When i looked up inoticed him looking in my direction. I tried to keep myself from smiling and went back to working on a paper. Twoo minutes later i looked up and he was still looking. After i finished my paper i layed my head down on the desk too. At this point we were both looking directly at one another. I felt my face turning red so i turned my head a different direction. Right after that a girl walked in and sat two seats behind him. Right after she sat down he put his head down then lifted it up and turned around in his seat. I really really like him and can't stop thinking about him. Do you think he likes me? Or was he just tired? I'm scared of what he would say if i told him i like him. He is a really sweet and funny guy. All these girls talk to him and flirt with him and really doesn't pay attention or care. I just don't know if he would like me...

  • Lilly
    18 years ago

    im no expert....but in a guys world i think that means he likes you, give it a little while and he'll be falling over just to talk to you, guys aren't known for being subtle about who they like, he has prolly blabed to someone that he likes you, just keep an ear out for hints other people may give away!

  • Brian King
    18 years ago

    i agree just wait it out a bit longer keep doing what you're doing see if he pays more attention to you. just be mindful of what he does when he's around you . if he likes you eventually he'll make a move. but if the two of you are looking at each other try not to look away, he might think you don't like him

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    Thanks for the advise. I'll wait longer to see if i hear something and i'll try not to look away but it's hard when i like someone. Not to mention the fact that i was blushing.

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    yeah..well...forget any of this. I found he has a g/f but i really don't understand. I mean he hasn't mentioned her and he is never with a girl during school. Why would he be looking at me? I don't know but i feel really hurt..

  • Let Me Be Your Happily Ever After
    18 years ago

    aww ive found that guys even though they are dating people are more likely to gain crushes on other girls. its happened all too often. it doesnt necesarily mean hes gonna act on it. but he could still liek you

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    thnxs :D. Maybe...but i highly doubt that he likes me. Maybe i was just getting my hopes up. I don't know but i still like him and maybe someday i will get a chance with him who knows..

  • alwaysremeniceus
    18 years ago

    sometimes people don't love their girlfriends? like they like them, but when they find someone else they might like they get confused, atleast i think...

    in my opinion, this happens to people quite a lot, but i guess its all part of just dating and loving?? personally, i think awkward situations and when we end up dealing with things that are very difficult to us, everytime we get hurt, we learn a little bit, a relationship somewhere grows a bit stronger, no matter if its with friends, class mates, family, or ur bf/gf...

    anyways, i think you should try to talk to him... maybe ask if he wants to go get coffee and talk or something?? but think about this for a moment... if he does like you, and you get together, you have to be prepared to face the problem with all the other girls flirting with him? and his ex too...

    i'm in a situation like that too... his ex still likes him, but she has a new boyfriend... she even told me she still likes him... but we're good friends... funny, isn't it?

    and well, if you do get together with him.. just remember... try not to freak out becase of the other girls!! that only stresses him out even more, and i learned that the hard way...

    -kelsie

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    Thnxs..:D. Well the sad part is that before i found out he had a g/f i wrote him a note. I didn't say who it was but i told him how i really like him. He's in my friends class (she gave him the note) and i think he talked to her today and she's gonna tell me what he said later. I feel really stupid because if i had known before i could have avoided giving him the note. My friend even thought it was strange he has a g/f because he never mentions her. It's funny that you are in somewhat of the same position :). Oh trust me if i were to get together with him which probably won't happen i wouldn't flip out about the girls round him. I mean a lot of girls think he's cute but they aren't really his type. He's not into those kind of girls that are snooty and think too much of themselves. Thanks for that advise it really helped :D.