Can he change...

Ok I liked this kid alot... and he told me he liked me too.. but he said he couldn't go out with me... and I asked why and he said he has had a girlfriend since before he met me... and I got mad because he told me that he liked me alot and told me that he liked the sound of my voice and all... so after he told me he had a girlfriend I did not talk to him for awhile... and when we did start talking again... he told me he liked me alot... and that he broke up with his girlfriend... and now he wants to go out with me... should I trust him and go out with him and give him another chance for me to fall in love with him... and a possible chance to get my heart broken again.. or should I tell him that I think that me and him should just stay friends....

he must really wonna be with you if he broke up with his girlfriend for you. I say go for it. Life is to short. you dont want to regret it later on for not giving it a chance

stephanie she didn't say he broke up with his girlfriend for her she just said "and that he broke up with his girlfriend" i'd give him a chance but.... be careful... we guys often end up being asses

once a player...always a player..that's why i'm not gettin married..i don't wanna do something that i'd regret...i have the same problem...and trust me..he doesn't really like the sound of your voice..it's a line that i used to use too...actually..the game plan for him is...bag it, tag it...and flag it...and then dip..so your gonna be on your own..again..so you come up with your own logic...do you REALLY want that?

Ok well I went for him... and it worked out for awhile... but.. not because of him ..it's because of my mom she made me brake up with him... because he is 3 years older than me.. so then after that he went for my best friend... I said it was ok though... so then about 2 two weeks ago I found out that he never really got over and going for my best friend was a way to date someone that he could still be around me... so two weeks ago he told me that he still liked me and I told him that I still had feelings for him too... and so we started talking again... and then 3 days ago he told my best friend that he was still in love with me... so now she is upset and said that if it doesn't work out between her and him she will never date again... and it hurts for me to talk to her about it because she thinks that I'm over him.. and I'm not I tell him I love him and he tells me he loves me all the time ...what should I do about this..with out trying to lose someone I really love or my best friend...

what makes you so special? do you think that he's gonna stay loyal to you?..nah if a dogs gonna wonder...he's gonna wonder...give it 2 weeks and there's gonna be another girl...seen it a million times..yea..if ya wanna get screwed over..take him up on it..if not then screw it and find someone else...ttfn

Can a leopard change his spots?

Well... I didn't really take anyones advise.. because I went for him yeah it was stupid like you guys said... two weeks.. he had a new girl well he is still mine right now... but I'm getting ready to brake up with him... because my best friend told me that he had a crush on her while we were going out... and she finally told me today and he said that he was going to kiss her at the movies when I was not around... she thinks it's all her fault... because she told me... and I told her that it was not her fault at all.. and I thanked her for helping me not make the biggest mistake of my life... so how do I get through to her that it's not her fault... and how do I show her that I thank her for what she did....?? any ideas....

"and how do I show her that I thank her for what she did....?? any ideas...."

Hugs always seem to do it for me. Simple as that. :)

-Nora-