ok plz help me

i have a friend...it's a guy by the way....and i've been talking to him for a couple of months now and we've become really good friends....well now he's come to me for advice and i can't help him with some of it....He's 18 and really good friends with a girl thats 16....well now we get to the problem....something happened one night and now she may be pregnant.....and she wants a baby and even though he's said that he isn't ready for this yet but he will stick by her.....well now we come to the next problem....she doesn't want to go to the doctors to get a test done.....i don't know what advice to give him for that part....nor do i know how to help him with this part of the problem....who he likes more...me or her.....
Could someone please take some time out and help me and him with this.....it would mean a great deal to the both of us....Thank You

if she wont go to the doctors at least get a pregnancy test. its nice of him to stick by her but tell him he shouldnt be with her simply because she's pregnant cuz otherwise things will end badly, ive seen this happen twice in the past few months and he'll just end up resentin her because he'll feel trapped. if he'd rather be with you then he should be (if thats what you want too)
that girl really should go to the doctors though, it would be immature and irresponsible not to

thankx for that.....he was telling me about it and this girl is his brothers ex.....his brother broke up with her and then she went and got with my friend...the next day his brother told her that he was sorry and all this and she took him back.....i know she should get a test done and so does he but he can't convince her of that....honestly i think she was just using him but i don't want to tell him that because he's good friends with her too and he's known her longer then me so chances are he would stop talking me because of it

Hey.. i have abest mate who is a bloke and umm.. its not always as easy as it seems is it to have a lad as a best mate???
umm well ok this other girl obviously is playing games kinda an she is confusing his emotions and feelings by saying she is pregnant! NOT GOOD!!
um k k its good that he is gonna stick by her if she is pregnant but thing is she should/has to get a pregnacy test.. its simple.. she has to have one!!

um to me as ive been in this situation my best mate too that.. if she isnt willing to take one that he cuts all ties with her.. and that she could be making it up to just keep hold of him ir to get back at someone else.. like .. did u say she were with his brother??? well if so then sahe could be doing it to get back at him and get his attension and i agree with you that she is using him...

and he is gonna get hurt by it!
but like they say you gotta be crule to be kind at end of the day! and you gotta decide if your gonna take the gamble of him not talking to you for awhile..
and if he does he will come back to yu.. believe ive been there and done it and um you feel well shit over it.. i felt i had lost someone great but he came back to me and i had my arms open wide for him!!

um but if you love him or like him then you and him and gotta leave that in pause for time being until he knows for sure that she is having his baby!!
he has gotta say to her he wants her to have a pregnacy test.. maybe if he took a test round to her then she kinda can not do it!!

hope ive helped u..
xhanx

Hey I think that you should tell you're friend to talk to her about it and maybe explain to her why she should get a test done and hopefully she will. g2g love heather

How does she KNOW she is pregnant? Maybe she is playing games with him. Maybe that is why she won't get the test done. And IF she is pregnant, how does he know it's his & not his brother's?

thank u all.....and if she is pregnant we don't know if it's gonna be his or his brothers.....and at least i'm not the only one who thinks she's just playing games with him......time to tell him what i think and be ready to face whatever happens....and if he does chose her over me....i'll be there for him if he comes back...

well i told him....and he stopped talking to me....i guess now i just have to wait and see what happens after all this has ended....

hey.. dont worry.. let him cool down and accept what youve said is true.. he has to admit it to himself first and umm it aint always as easy to do that!! well he will come back to you.. it just mighta lil while and believe me youll wanna text him call and go see him but if your like me youll be stubben too and let him comee back round to you in his own time!

um dont feel bad for telling him how you see the turth.. it might seem that u havent done the right thing at the momentbut u have...
so please dont think that ou havent.. i woudlnt give him too much of a cold shoulder though.. i no i didnt go running to my best mate mark.. i no i left him a lone until he were ready to talk to me an i just now an again sent him lil texts.. it kinda showsa your still thinking of him!!

i guess all you gotta do is ride it out love!!
msg back yeah!
xxhanxx