Is it so wrong???

Hi guys, my ex-girlfriend and I broke up about 7 month ago and we remained as good friend ever since. Just recently I started to have a crash on a close friend of mine who happens to be my ex's best friend... this seems to be a little confusing and a little wrong, but I like that girl alot. I don't know how to tell her or weither I should tell her or not... oh bum... any advise??

This type of senario seems to happen more than people think...In my experience it is always good to tell people your feelings instead of keeping them bottled up inside...So I would say go for it and tell her, letting your feelings out into the open can't hurt that much. If you and this girl end up dating your ex could cause problems or be over you enough to be ok with it- only time can tell.

go for it but if the gurl you like is around ur ex don't do anything stupid

Hmmm.... bum, I think my ex is still not over me yet, and my friend knows that as well... damn, I hate having to hold secrets to myself... #$#^@#$^

Thanks for answering my post tho guys, its much appricated :)

i've had a love triangle before.. we were all friends.. he was my best friend's ex. i've had feelings for him for awhile. i was driving myself crazy. he knew that i like him. he told me that he didnt care 'bout my friend and how she feels if we started to date.. but then, i was like, "she's my best friends and i would never do anything to hurt her." so guess what i did?? i went up to her and ask her if it's ok if me and her ex start dating... she just laugh and then said that it was ok.. we were dating, but broke up.. we are all still good friends, which i am really grateful for..

so, it seems to me that if you tell your ex friends, and since you mention that ur ex stil have feelings for you, your ex and ur ex friends will no longer be best friend anymore if you tell her that you have feelings for her.... and if you dont tell her you're gonna drive yourself crazy....

let me ask you this, do you know if your ex friend have any kind of feeling towards you?? if she does, then it's ok to tell her that you like her.. if she doesnt, gont make a fool out of yourself..

good luck!

Thanks ms.more, I don't know if she has feelings for me and I don't think so neither... looks like Im going on the road that drive meself crazy... oh wait, Im already on it :)..... :(

dont drive yourself crazy.. i mean, does she gives you any kind of signal that she's kinda interest in you??

if you know for a fact that she doesnt have any kind of feelings towards you, just accept the fact that she doesnt like you the way that you like her.. love just didnt choose to rest inthe other person's heart....... (^_-)

Answering to Neni, no, I don't have feeling for my ex anymore, no more than just a good friend. I was feeling like that towards my ex for a while before we broke up... and that was one of the reasons why we broke up along with other issues :S but she still have feeling for me tho :/ I kinda feels like I owe her a boyfriend... any man living in New Zealand seeking a good girl??? ;)