big mess

  • deathangel05
    18 years ago

    ya, i seem to have a slight problem...but its a big one. im 17 years old, but im kind of with a 27 year old...i like him a lot and he's assured me he feels the same way. i know there's a big age difference, but age doesn't matter...ive even talked to his mom and she's okay with it, because i make him happy and visa versa. but now his best friend wont even go over the house if im there. he says he wont be apart of something so wrong...about a week ago, he didnt think that. but now i feel bad, because he wont come over and hang out and i feel like its all my fault...he said its not and not to worry about it because he doesnt care what they say or think...but i cant help it...help me.....

  • Han84
    18 years ago

    hey..
    wel aslong as you say go over and see him instead then his mate cant say you have split their friendship up!! um some ppl dont agree with big age gaps ok if he thinks a bad thing that you 2 are together then leave him be.. if you and your lad are happy then who cares!!
    i can understand that you feel bad but also he hasnt let themself get to know you! so he is judging you already! but he will more than likely come round after abit of time..

    but all i can say is if you 2 want to be together go for it.. and if you like say to your la go spend time with himi then you have nothing to worry bout!

    dont stress bout it.. let his mate get on with it..take care yeah??
    xhx

  • just a poet
    18 years ago

    yeah freemans rught my pareents together after 17 years and they got a 10 year age gap. do whaat u want and the fruend he'll come around.