I need help!! Someone help!!

Slitting your wrist to get his attention to get his attention is stupid for two reasons 1) You could die (If you didnt know that then you are Stupid with a capital S) and 2) Slitting your wrist for his attention is just plain pathetic. Tell him you like him or GET OVER IT. He will never go for you if you slit your wrist. You will send out the wrong kind of signal and he will totally not want you. I am totally unsympathetic to this situation beacuse slitting your wrist for someone, who from the sounds of it, does not even like you, is totally emo and retarded.

O_O are you serious!? Slitting your wrist just to get his attention. That's bull****! You shouldn't do that! If you want his attention i suggest 'talking' to him or something!! But slitting your wrist for attention and the hopes of him noticeing is totally wrong!

I totally agree with the person ^^ You WILL send out a totally wrong message, and he won't want you. Ifnfact it will be the exact opposite!

Do you know how serious cutting even is!?? Its not something you can just start and give up once you get his attention. Do you know what could happen if you acceidently cut to deep!? I know alot of poeple who dies because of cutting to deep. SOme of them were like sisters to me. I'm sorry but this is just plain pathetic! Cutting for attention is really low.

I suggest you STOP IT! Just ask him out or forget about it! Cutting to get a guys attention is stupid! A guy isn't worth it! Your life matters more, then going out with a guy. No offence to guys but.. YOU'LL LIVE WITHOUT A BOYFRIEND, its not the end of the world! You're only what 13? You have plenty of time to find a guy, date and shit...but cutting yourself is going to get you NOWHERE...JEEZ! O_o

P.S. Sorry if i was rude...but its the truth.
~Luvz~
~Chica~

OMG!!!! are you seriosly considering cutting yourself, for attention!?! omg, just go up to him and talk. once you start cutting it is so hard to stop. and it's even more stupid to do it for attention! i know how stupid cutting is from experience, so please don't start!

^^^^^^^^^ COMPLETELY AGREE. I am a self harmer and I have been trying so hard to stop and I get really agitated when someone cuts for attention. It is completely stupid and makes people think that all self harmers do it for attention like the creator of this thread.

the right thing to do?? you have to be joking.... what sort of message will he get from that, hmm yes he will realise you like him, but in a weird way! please, don't ever cut for attention. it's not just offensive to others, but for your sake you'll only end up getting deeper into self-harm and may find your reasons for it change.
Polly

Have you ever heard of a guy falling compleatly in love with some one because she has cuts on her arms? Seriously. If you feel the only way to get attention is to cut, then your biggest problem is not getting some guy to like you. And you attract more flies with hunny. Im sure this guy would rather go out with a happy girl that one that is desperate for attention. Yes, you might get him to know you exist, but don't expect him to swoon over your emotional damage it's pathetic.

Hell no! Don't you ever do that. What in the heck do you think it will accomplish? You want him to pitty you? Be afriad of you? People could mistake you for having problems if you cut and then life will suck. Honestly, go talk to him, email him whatever. Cutting yourself to get his attention?! The only thing you will do is drive him away and screw your life, don't be stupid.

-tainted Mikochan

Well I think everyone elses replies were horrible! I mean its obvious from the first reply that you shouldnt slit your wrist but nobody else needs to get angry with you. Now you know, so everyone else can stop being assholes about it!

And sometimes it is hard to just 'go up and talk to a guy'. Newsflash not everyone can just do that.

Not the way to go!!! AT ALL! thats is all wrong! It will not get his attention for the better and if he doesn't know you well he probably won't even care!

you want to slit your wrist to get a guys attention? do you honestly believe that by doing that he's going to show any intrest in you? truth is he won't he'll think you're pathetic for even trying to do something that stupid in the first place. now people on this site actaully cut for a reason..obviously you know that by some of the other reply's on this thread. if you want to get this guys attention drop your school books in front of him by "accident" or drop your pencil.

if you know any of his intrest then start a convo with him about that. but under no means should you do something so..theres not even a word for it. i mean sure it's understandable if you're afraid to go up to the guy and talk to him..maybe you're shy i wouldn't know, but for love of god by no means should you do that just because you want his attention. no person is worth that. especially some crush that you'll wind up forgetting by highschool.

*tiff*

ok slitting your wrists to get this guys attention...IS WRONG...your most likely ganna scare the poor guy of for fuck sake...thinking your some kinda of physco...and cutting over a boy is pathetic..maybe if you loved him, put everything you had into a bundle and give it to him...just for you to loose him...then mayb ...yes...dat wud be a good enough reason (I AM NOT SUGGESTING THAT TO ANYONE OK) so yh...dnt botehr even touching a blade over something so pathetic and trivial then that...

yeah, i can totally agree with you on that one...

Yep, I think she did. And she got it. Attention Seeker.

ok, if your going to cut your wrists because you want to get his attention, don't that's so stupid, some of us who accually do cut want it to stop so why would you even do that it's stupid, just talk to him tell him you like him, but don't cut to get his attention, and hey if you do do it and get his attention it'll probabley be in a negative way, he'll probabley tell someone and then that would just be bad!!

do u have any idea how pathetic that is?

If you're Really sad, you dont slit your wrists for attention

heres all i have to say about his

woah

ya take our advice no cutting for attention...its one of the most sereous things you can do to yourself. im a cutter and ive been hospitalized 2ice..its bad girl and dont you dare get involved
there are other ways to do things... feel better ~cherry

I agree with you, people who do it(and I myself do it to some form) find it very offensive to cut your wrist for something like getting attention. People who cut themselfs do it for a reason, and its not to get attention from some boy.

*Hands razor blade* Here you go. Do it and see what happens.

^ I'm leaning in her direction. I'm, honestly, flabbergasted that you would even think that is a good idea. Wow, just wow.

Kalika