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  • Casey
    20 years ago

    Ok, So I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for a week and I like him, but I've gone out with him before and since that last time I've gotten to know him better so i know how he is. When he says I love you (Which he said after 2 days!!! Scary) I Know he's just looking for someone to say it back. And he usually goes out with girls because he already knows they like him. And because I know how he is, I promised I wouldnt throw myself into it again and get hurt all over again, but i like him, I like flirting with him n stuff, But theres this other guy whos really cute, I just met him and he likes me n all that good stuff, but he goes to another school and I dont know him that well. Who should I stick wiht? and If you think I should stick with the first one, how to I tell him he's a bad kisser? lol

  • More
    20 years ago

    im not sure who to tell you who to stick with.. but if you do end up with the first one, be honest with hiim --> communication is the best key.. you have to tell him what's wrong, if you dont he's gonna keep on doing it.....

    and how to tell him that he's a bad kisser?? lets just say that you guys we're 'bout to kiss. stop him! tell him that you wanna be the leader. that you want him to follow you.. if you guys kiss then and he still doesnt follow you, stop him again! tell him to just follow you....... if he doesnt, well he just sucks i guess.. (^_-) btw, dont tell him straight off that he's a bad kisser (if you do like this guy).. maybe later on in the relation..

  • nikki
    20 years ago

    ok. heres a hand. firstly you sound really unsure about this first guy. It looks to me that you are looking for reasurance that its alright to dump the first guy. I've always said never settle for second best even when fist best is outa reach. no point of being unhappy when you could be happy. ive had a guy say he loved me before we went out and
    kiss me (BAD) before going out aswell. firstly, when a guy says he loves you question him, ask him if he really does, or what he lovs about you. and the bad kissing thing. The way i'd do things is make him take my lead without knowing it! you might want to get to know the second person a bit well aswell but do us a favor and dont string em both along. good luck with your decission and remember there is no wrong answer!! nikki xXx