ok am i too jealous?

  • Let Me Be Your Happily Ever After
    18 years ago

    okay so my bf is really tight with his ex. and so i was on his my space. and she had left him a comment saying 'id bang you, not like i havent a million times before, but for all the banging to come, i cant wait' okay so i know hes not cheating on me but they dated for a really long time, and i know its probably a joke. but they are always together. and am i being too jealous. cause i really think i am.

  • lindsay
    18 years ago

    definitely not. i'd b kinda pissed if i found out about that. seriously, i think u should tlk to him about it tho.

  • alwaysremeniceus
    18 years ago

    i'd be upset... but don't get too jealous.. jealousy got me in a lotta trouble before too and i've hurted my boyfriend a lot because of my jealousy, even if you are a bit envious as a person (i know i am, and paranoid too, a bad combination x.x), try not to be and control it, because well, theres no excuse for being too jealous

  • xღxBeckyxღx
    18 years ago

    before jealousy gets the best of you, my suggestion would be to talk to him about that cos that comment is kinda unsuitable considering hes finished avec her, even if they did have a history together. So yeh, talk to him about it :-) take care xx x

  • Void
    18 years ago

    You're definatley not too jealous. I would be seriously considering making a cake just for her -Ingredients : a lil bit a poison.... a lil bit more poison... perhaps some ginger...lol. Talk to him about it though, if he doesn't know how you feel about the situation, how is he going to fix it or make you feel better about that kind of thing. Guys just don't pick up on that sort of stuff, and neither do girls if they're the ones causing the problem... I think it's a human flaw.

  • SplitSided
    18 years ago

    that sucks..jus let it go for awhile...anything happens...stomp her out..there's my 2 cents

  • kami
    18 years ago

    my boyfriend and i both have difficulty with jealousy and when we get jealous we ask one another " well put yourself in my shoes how would you feel..honestly" its not fair for you to go through a relationship feeling like this i know how ya feel girl

  • Let Me Be Your Happily Ever After
    18 years ago

    aww kami thanks. yah so i was tlaking to his ex the other day and my bf was there with her.and shes one of those girls thats hard to hate she was like " aww hun you make him so happy and im happy for him, you're amazing for him" and then im liek aww shes nice but then she goes and says something like " hold on ill be right back, your boyfriend is soo touchy feely lol he wont get his hands off me" im like ohhh subtle niice.
    lol but then he sends me texts like you're my everything and babe i just felt like telling you i love you. so for now im like aww w.e but sooenr or later i bet it wil creep back up. thanks all for your help though

  • kami
    18 years ago

    i dont know how you handle that....i wouldnt put up with it

  • melinda
    18 years ago

    i wouldnt know what to do in that situation either, other than mabey talking to him and do what kami said ask hi how he would feel if he was in your shoes, and if he blows u off, then give him a taste of it! start hanging out alot with na ex or just a guy friend, mabey then hell relize how it feels! and also talk to the ex tell her thats shes cool, she just needs to back off a little or else! lol good luck hunnie!