my friend

my friends has been through a lot!!
she told me she was raped 3 times and i want to tell the cops but she doesnt want to. i dont want to go behind her back but she really needs to tell someone

plez help

XIX

well are u defo sure she sctually did get raped n she's not seying it for attension(not in a mean way). i think u shud tell the cops you friend will thank you in the end and it means if its the same person then they can't do it again to her!

I don't think it's any of your business, no offense meant but if she doesn't want to press charges I think you should respect that.

Yeah I agree with ^^^. It is a big deal, and if she doesn't want to pursue it then you should stay out of it. Leave her to make her own desicions, it's her life and something she has to do in her own time.

I disagree. If she is indeed telling the truth, then you should do whatever you can to stop that person from doing it again. My aunt had an abusive boyfriend, who she didn't press charges on and then he raped and killed a 20 year old woman. I don't think you should do it for her though. Just be a supportive friend, and try and get her to talk about it with the police or even a teacher or someone.

Try to make sure she is telling the truth, find out who it is and if they are still a threat to her. Talk to her, be supportive and try to show her you care and want to understand why she doesn't want to come forward. If you show her you want to help understand her that might help her open up to you and she might let you take action. Tell her you will be with her the whole time and let her know how much she means to you as a person and you are only trying to help her out. That's what I would do. Best of luck. You are a good friend.

-Tainted mikochan

email me, ill help
www.mental_wellbeing@hotmail.co.uk

email me, ill help
www.mental_wellbeing@hotmail.co.uk

well for the people who sed to leave her alone she did ask for advice in her post! im intitled to my own opinion!

thanx everyone im gona sit her down and talk to her bout it and see what happens.

XIX

well, you can't press charges for her. had some friends try that once for my cousin. doesn't work. she's going to have to go there herself. talk to a counselor. police. parents. somebody grown-up.

K thanks

XIX

who gets raped 3 times?