it would be nice just to get some advice!

to everyone who reads this, this is te problem. me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year and a half. but uor relationship is so boring!!! like when we talk n the phone and stuff we never really have anything to talk about. and when we hang out it basically always at his house and we just sit teir being a bunch of fat lards! yes sometimes i like to be at home and just sit around, but im just getting so bored! we dont hang out with the same friends. he dont invite me to hang out with him and his friends or anything! we never do anything togther other than fight and sit at his house! its really bad. i love him so much but i just dont know what to do! and i have already triend talking to him about it nad all he said is...if i had a car we would do alot more together...which i know is bull shit! so got any ideas? i would really appreciate whoever helps me . thanxs everyone

Try to suggest fun things to do
Invite him some place
ya knows
like nothing special, start with some place little ..
like the park .. lol or the library lol
i Dunno just anywhere
Well just an idea .. :)
♥NerdyPants

Invite him to hang out with you and your friend. Try to find common goals and interesting things that you both like and do those together.

Also take a breather... you do not have to be with him every spare minute. Sometimes it just takes doing activities apart to actually bring you together.

If all else fails and you get no where talking to him then it is time to say good-bye and move on before you get even more attached.

Just my opinions...

--Sherry Lynn

thanxs everyone i appreciate it!

yeah say to him bout making a place yours and his... or go out for a meal.. you gotta think is this what u want...

thanks yous!!!!

ahha i have thought of that many times, its just i dont really have anyone in my life other than him. so its hard for me to just walk away, we have been through alot..i mean alot. so its hard! its just, i think i have come to relize that we dont really "click" lke i thought we did. i dont know what to do. this is so hard....i hate life!!!

in a relationship you should both agree to make sacrifices so if he isn't interested in doing anything then basically he isn't worth it!

play some games! tie him up. it works. annnd it excites you as well as him. if you're not there yet, tie him up anyways lol :) then tickle him with a feather.