i hate my father

i dont kno wat to say i dont hate my dad but i guess im sorry

We some of us hate our dads sometime in life but hate is a strong word If you want to talk about it just talk to me and ill see what i can do for ya

Well look at it this way, when you are grown up you can remember the things you didn't like that your parents did, and you can use that to help you become a good parent to your children. My mom says all the time that she hopes I will be a better mother than her, although she is the classic perfect mother/wife. We don't get along too well, because there are some big things in life that we disagree on and we both have support for our ideas and both "know" we are right. My Point is, learn from your parents mistakes to help you create less of your own.

-Tainted Mikochan

Look at it this way...every generation that comes in life we all dont want to be like our parents but we all pick out little things from how our parents live or act. But you only have to deal with them for so long so keep strong

actually i wrote this topic and then my friend came over his name is Kurt and respnded..then we had to get off so i nvr came back. the reason i hate my father is: NO not b/c a boy. b/c he is psychotic. he cut off our phone, cable, internet(im on at school) has taken our lightbulbs, put them in his car and is quitting his job. also he says hes leavin...like LEAVING... and my mother cannot afford the house let alone us. shes currently in colllege, working part time, and its crazy... gawsh.....so yea..thats why i ahte my father.. and also cause he beats up my mom and hit me and my sis... :)

so is it wrong that i hate my father?

no, i don't blame you. however, still in your situation i still can't help believe that hate is still to strong of a word. life is never happy when you hold grudes...so forgive your father. he's leaving so it's not like you have to see him again. truth be told, it is wrong that he's leaving and that he hit you as well as your sis, etc. child abuse has never nor will it be a good thing. but if you go through life holding this grudge with you, you'll always remember why you hated him....why he made you upset. there for you'll never be completely happy. and my guess is that's what you want...that and a man worth calling your father. look you'll meet some bad people in this world..sadly your dad was one of them, but be thankful that a man who would abuse his wife as well as his childern won't be sticking around for very long. and when the time comes that he does leave....im sure you and your family will be ok...with time that is. just don't give up hope, because if you do...then hope will give up on you. best wishes.

-dominique

today, i asked my mom if i could compete in the bicycle race tomorrow. she said no and she called me an animal and said that beasts like me can't compete in races

she is always planning how i am supposed to live
i hate her

i don't want to live in this house

i ran from home 3 times already
i hear sum one comnig so i have to go

reply soon wat should i do?

no offence to ur mother but she sounds like an awful person i cant blame u for running away, perhaps u should talk to a skool counsellor n see if tehy can hhelp sort it out for u! what bout ur father? where is he?

i hate my dad coz he is a drug dealer/ drug addict and i hate him coz he things im sum1 im not n hes so mesed up wit drugs he doesnt undastand nething, my mum n him r divorced n wen he gets angry he puts holes thru the wall n it scares me... he also bsahed my mum wen i was 4 n ii is my earliest childhood memory n that is what he is capable of n it scares me and i would neva get on the wrong side of him i hate him.. i hope he dies so i dnt have to introduce children of my own to him

i hate my mom...and yes i hate her...truly hate her!
i think she is a worthless peice of...you get it...i dont wanna go into the whole stroy but, i was never physically abused...but she is an alcholic, sl*t, who wasnever there for her kids (me and my seven brothers and sisters) sge abnadoned us all... and never cared for any of us. she has said to others and myself that she never wanted anyof us and she still dont! She is an example of a usless human being! okay i admit in some way i lvoe her because she is my mother, but thats only because hses my mom, but i still mena eveyrtihng i say!

*hugs* i hope it works out. just try to b there, an find a way to knock sense into ur dad!!