Advice Wanted

  • obsessedgurl
    18 years ago

    Okay, my best friend has been going out with this boy for about 2.5 years, since the beginning of sixth grade, and they are really close. And his mom died last year and she really helped him get through the pain. But this year this girl moved here and she "fell in love" with her bf and now she's trying to break them up and going around saying she will break them up. And her bf seems oblivious, but i kind of have a hunch that he does like her.... but it seems rediculus because my best friend and him are like really close. But he always flirts with the new girl, and my best frind kinda gets jealous. I'm so scared that they're gonna break up. What can I do?

  • obsessedgurl
    18 years ago

    Thanks you guys!!

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    Just talk to the new girl. Tell her that what she's doing is messed up. You could also talk to your best friend and her b/f at the same time. See what their feelings are about this situation. I agree that these types of situations can turn into bitch fights. Just be careful. Don't start a fight. Normally that makes the situation 10x worse. Trust me, i know. Good luck!

  • squirttt
    18 years ago

    there's not much you can do, unfortunately. sometimes people grow apart and break up. it's reality even though it sucks more than anything. even though she helped him get through the death, sometimes that doesn't keep people together. and you (in general) shouldn't hold that against them if the other person does break up with you. but back to the topic, maybe you should try and talk to the guy. straighten him out a little. good luck.

  • sincere801
    18 years ago

    You really cant do anythin. Jus be there for your friend and jus let your friend and her man talk things out. because you dont wanna get caught in the middle if your suspision is wrong so jus be there and dont get to involved