What Do i Do

  • BloodScars
    18 years ago

    yeah okay so i spent all yesterday with my boyfriend and we had so much fun...then i had to go to my friends house cause my mom doesnt allow me to be with him so she didnt know...after like two hours at her house we went to the bowling alley and there were these two drunk guys that were all over us and yeah i love my bf to death and i dont want to hurt him...but yeah this one guy was like huggin all over me and i was pushing him off and yeah like telling him to stop and i was doing all i could to get him off of me...but yeah im weak and so i felt so bad and i told him and yeah now his sooo pissed off at me for something i didnt do...so yeah i want some advice to show him that i love him and to make him trust me again

  • kami
    18 years ago

    that has happened alot to me i soon had to just tell my boy i wouldnt hang out with guys but all i hve is guy friend (im like one of the guys) so finally he bought me pepper spray ha ha , if your wiling to sacrifice dont go out where you know guys are i know it wasnt your fault that guys were there but i had to sarifice alot. He is starting to actully ease up alot and isnt worried about it cause he knows i love him , i think maybe it scared him real bad , try and comfort him

  • xDryTearsx
    18 years ago

    Oh my gosh .. dont go kissing his butt ...
    You did nothing wrong .. you shouldnt sacrifice your friends, your boyfriend should trust you ..
    If you wanna go kissing his butt then whatever
    but if you didnt do anything dont beat yourself up for it let him know what was goin on and let him know he needs to trust you or your relationship wont go far ...
    Love Always
    ♥NerdyPants

  • MaSkEdSoUl
    18 years ago

    I agree with NerdyPants lol.

  • melinda
    18 years ago

    well i dont think thats right blood perons...i agree with nerdy pants, and blood your not a girl so you dont know whow it is to be in situations like that, yes they could have just go tup and left, but o well. she didnt ask them to be all over her. her man should trust her and be comfoting her and just tlel her next time it happenes, that they wil have to deal with ihm. thats a real man!

  • xDryTearsx
    18 years ago

    Life were you there? Do you know what happened?
    Do you really know her?
    If not then i dont think its your place to be calling anyone a slut or anything.
    So next time you need to check yourself before you go judging someone by absolutly nothing
    Giving your opinion is one thing but when your a complete a-hole about it and saying unnecassary things its rude and unappreciated.
    So whatever
    ♥NerdyPants

  • Poetvoices
    18 years ago

    I don't wanna join the argument, but I do wanna put in that you don't have to give up guy FRIENDS for your guy, and if he expects you to, tell him to buzz off.
    Saying that, I would also like to say that you could have easily gotten up and left the bowling alley. It wouldn't have been imposible. What you are trying to say those guys did was sexual harrassment. That, especially in a PUBLIC place, is avoidable.

  • Black Rose
    18 years ago

    yeah stop sayin yeah all the time

  • holly
    18 years ago

    you did nothing wrong in fact it was really good of you to tell him let him get over it

  • xღxBeckyxღx
    18 years ago

    Heya, i think hes over reacted slightly, it seems he's insecure about you, he seems scared he's gonna lose you to one of these guys or somebody else. Just give him some reassurance, explain you don't want anybody else but him, hopefully in time, he'll ease up and become more secure in your relationship.