I dont know what to do... HELP!

  • Samantha
    18 years ago

    THIS IS POSTED SOMEWHERE ELSE BUT I REALLY NEED HELP... IF YOU CAN... THANKS SO MUCH!
    i really messed up i think... i was good friends with this kid steve that i met about six months ago... we started to get really close and some of his and my closest friends told me that he liked me but was to shy to ask me out and that i should ask him out... so to make a long story short... i asked him out only it didnt go to well... hes kinda the quite type and everyone was making a big deal out of it and like attacking him for an answer it was total chaos... i didnt get an answer from him that day cause i got pushed out of the booth becasue the wanted me to sit closer to him so they pushed me over and i fell... then today he acted like it never happened but he wouldnt look at me when he talked... and he always used to look right into my eyes when he talked to me... it was like he was talking to the table.. and if i hadnt started the converstaion then i dont think he wouldve said anything at all... he was looking at me when i walked away though cuz i turned around and he turned his head like he didnt want me to see... im so scared i dont wanna lose him as a friend... and i like him so much and want to be with him so bad... i already posted this once somewhere else but no one knew what to tell me... maybe you guys could help...??? i honestly dont know what to do...

    ONe week later....

    He knows how I feel about him... I told him last week... For awhile it was a little wierd between us and it was hard to talk to each other but now its back like old times and we are good friends... but i want to be more but its almost like i never told him anything and that it didnt happen at all... I'm not sure what to do... should i just keep things how they are or should i go with my heart and keep trying to be with him? Its really hard to get him alone... and i want to talk about it with him but i'm really scared and dont know what to say... i dunno what to do... help... if you can...

  • Emma
    18 years ago

    wow that was long but
    i think that you should talk to him again even if you are at risk of getting your heart broke. sometimes you need to feel that pain to understand fully how you feel about a person. that is how i look at it maybe i am wrong. it is up to you. but i say talk coner him and make him say something if you have to it will help in the long run.

    Emma

  • xDryTearsx
    18 years ago

    I think you should pull him away from everyone and kiss him!! lol ok too forward
    but you should be like
    Look dude i really like you and i really wanna be with you and all i want to know is do you wanna be with me too?
    Or something like that.
    Well i think i tried helping before and i was useless
    Not sure this times better.
    Love Always
    ♥NerdyPants

  • Samantha
    18 years ago

    aww haha... that made me giggle... if i go up and kiss him that would be sooo funny.. i can see his face now...haha... i'm not sure how that would go... but it would be funny...!!! maybe i'll try that... i dunno...

    i'm open to all suggestions though.. cause i dont know what to do at all and this is driving me absolutly insane!