Growing up !!!!!!!

  • AhmadAfaneh
    18 years ago

    Lately i left home to study in another country and live with my grandparents - u know how is it to live with old people. anyways now i have to do everything on my own... i have to think, act, and be responsible about my actions.
    But i dont like it at all especially because i am a 16 yrs old guy and all i wanna is a simple life but where can i find sucha life? I just hate it when peopel are treating me as a full-grown person... i still feel like i am a kid. i think like a kid and behave as a kid ... so i am just a kid .. i hate the idea that i am growing up.. i just wanna live my life a moment by a moment...and i am rele sad that i am leaving my childhood and all those sad and happy moments in it.. and by the other way i am going to the freaking adulthood where i'll be responsible of everything.

    so wat do you think of growing up ? do you like the feeling that your are growing? or is it just freaks you out?

  • AGirlWorthFightingFor
    18 years ago

    The whole being single thing kind of scares me, but as far as growing up, I've always been more like, "Bring it on!"

    Dealing with Insurance Companies & Tax returns though...man, I am not looking forward to.

    And going to the doctor on my own, I don't know if I could. because 1. We are always changing insurance providers, and often have to change doctors, so that becomes another reason to loathe insurance companies. 2. I hate doctors. I don't mind hospitals. I actually love meeting or just people watching in waiting rooms. I hate doctors because they make me feel like shit about myself because they tell me all these bad things about my body.

    At sixteen though, being forced to grow up early is not cool. You miss out on stuff. You're biggest responsibility at sixteen should be to get good grades in school and maybe, most likely, learn to drive.

  • melinda
    18 years ago

    im 16, female. i ha to grow up vey very fast, and learn everything basically on my own and everything that your talking about very young! but im happy that i did sorta because i am now veyr independent. i had my dad, but never my mom. i grew u p way too fast come to think of it! but im really excited to have to get a job and pay bills and all that, sounds corny, but i wanna do things bymyself, the way that i have beenfor years now!

  • Riffy
    18 years ago

    I really don't want to grow up. Okay, I'm only 14 but some people already treat me like and adult.
    I guess there is no real age of when you're totally 'grown up'.

  • demolitionmegan
    18 years ago

    I don't want to grow up either. but people expect me to cos they're too busy dealing with my brother's problems. that and nobody ever cleans up around here. if I don't clean up, no one else will..