I NEED HELP REALLY BAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Katie Stice
    18 years ago

    Wow well I have been going out with this guy name Ray for 5 months now but the last 2 months have been really hard, becuz he keeps ditching me for his friends. Like um one time we were supose to hang out and he called me up and said lets hang tomorrow becuz I want to hang with my friend. He is all bout his friends. He says he loves me but he dont show it I have put up with it for a long time and I have told him how I felt I have tried to breakup with him but its too hard cause I love him sooo much....My question is do u think I should break up with him to see if he changes and misses me or should I stay with him and see if things get better Idk what to do just tell me what to do I need advice....

  • BeautifulDisaster
    18 years ago

    Well first of all,
    if he's making you miserable you should break up with him hun. you deserve to be happy and eventhough you love him, if he doesent love you back or make you happy then you're better off without him.

    But before you break up with hiim or do anything, why dont you try to "be his friend" like dont act like his girlfriend so much, act like his friend, hang out with him and his friends and stuff.. if you know what I mean.

    Things are not going to get better unless you do something. Threaten him, say we need to talk or something, if he loves you truly then he wont let you go but if he does then he doesent deserve you hun, you deserve someone who loves you and will show it once in a while..not everyday but once in a while.

  • melinda
    18 years ago

    just give him a taste of his own medicine! i love that quote..and so far for me when i have dont it works. do the same exact thing to him, ditch him. hell see how it feels then. if he still doesnt change, leave him. even though its hard and it might hurt, youl be better off!

  • Ali
    18 years ago

    Yeah stop dating it should be just school for now!