My friend and Her man

I have a friend and I knew her for almost about 7 to 8yrs now. Well, first of all, She having a baby really soon on Feb.24,2006. Well, She is always getting mad because of her man. He is always with her and they spend alot of time together andit seems that I can't hang around with her, Helping her, hang out with her, or anything like that. It seems that he stoping her from seeing me(as a friend). If I need someone to talk to, his always in the way and I don't know what to do! Oh yeah they always fight over some thing little and it like get over it, you know. WHAT CAN I DO, SO I CAN STILL BE HER FRIEND WITHOUT HIM GETTING IN THE WAY?

~Protection~Love~

'course you can. talk to your friend. if he's controlling her too much, that may be a very bad thing. just talk to your friend and discuss how you feel. see how she feels too. :) let us know how it goes.

yeah. you don't understand yourself. his telling her what to do and she the like of person that doesn't like to be boss around!! I know my friend, we talked about everything!! I had a baby with my man in november of last year and we don't like to be with each other all the time. We need our space, not always be around each other. I let him to his thing and I do my thing...I got a family to, but I still have time to hang out with my friend then being with my man all the time. And she is dump to listen to her man and she does everything and she is almost due. He doesn't have a job right now and he don't do anything for her or anything like that. They don't have the baby's room done yet because he don't do nothing!! They are on their own and she works and he doesn't work, Isn't that wrong??? I think so. She due on Feb. 24, of this year.

~Protection~Love~

Well there are many different ways to look at this situation. Is your friend okay with it? personally, I think that he should be the one supporting her, but that doesn’t always happen in real life. if she’s okay with it, then there’s not much you can do. Does she still want to hang out with you? have you guys argued? Is there tension between the two of you? maybe give her some space too, but set up a time to see each other. If she can’t see you, go see her.

We always hang out together,but It's him. His the one that doesn't like to have people around with other people. It seems likehe don't like meat all. We never argued about anything, It's just him. Her aunt feels the same thing too. When ever they go over her aunt's house, they always argued over there and she getting sick of it because she doesn't like seeing her like that. I can't do that, to set up the time to see her. Every time I call her she doesn't like to answer her cell and she doesn't like to call me back forsome reason.