happiness is possible

some how this got posted again..so i just deleted everything so i wont futher upset anyone else.

-my apologiezs

For starters I well say that was well said. But I must say that you did come off a little harsh I know you said you were coming off like your heartless but still. I personly think that every one is a bit dramatic, I am one as well. That is just the way it is. No one can really change that unless they think before hand and analize the problem and ask if you are over reacting. Also when it comes to the breaking up and divorice thing. I think it's ok to talk about it. it's much better then self-harming or doing something stupid. I for one would rather see someone talk about their break up then go and do something crazy. If you have ever been hurt by some one then you will realize that it takes a long time to get over something like that and you just can't say oh well "it's done and i'm over it." As for the parents thing. When I am angry at my parents for some reason I know that I say things that are mean and harsh at that moment in time. Eventually when I have cooled down I take all those nasy comments back. I think a lot of parents are over protective espeically if your child has a mental illness. A lot of us on here have normal parents who don't beat us or abuse us or neglect us in any way. And I know that I don't take that for granted. Maybe others do and hopefully as they grow older they will realize that. But until then they are going to act the way they are. For the people who do get abused or are in abusive relationships. Or for that matter have been in abusive relationships know that it's not easy to get out of. It takes a long time to get the guts to end it. From my own experiance I know that it was difficult for me to get out of an abusive relationship because I was dependent on him and my self- esteem sucked. It took me a long time to realize that I was worth it. And hopefully in time anyone who is in a dangerious relationship with a boyfriend or a parent will realize that or ask for help. Also you don't have to have anything wrong with you in order to have depression. You could have a chemical imbalance in your brain and it could be passed on by genenerations from your family. I do however agree with you about if you are acting childish because life isnt going your way then you do need to get in touch with your inner self because there is always someone worse then you out there. Over all I think this forum is to talk about your problems and if you have a problem about an abusive relationship or having parent problems then go ahead and say it. it's much more better then self-harming or doing something you regret. Hopefully as people grow older they will realize these things and do something about it but until then this forum is a safe place to talk.

sarah

Dominique, I was rather upset that you would post this again without making any changes, this is a hurtful post as I had pointed out before. Teenagers are dramatic, that is part of the growing up process. You can't force people to just poof grow up! That is what life is for, to grow and to realize what is important vs. not as, but that is for people to decide for themselves. I had hoped you had learned something from what I said before, so I am not going to bother saying it again because I guess you didn't listen to me before. It is stange how you are so quick to share your opinion, and so sure you think are have found the solution to life that you won't listen to what I had to say before. You don't know everything about life, and it isn't right for you to go around acting like you do and then expecting everyone to agree with your view as reality. You don't know enough about these people to decide that they are being over dramatic and making a big deal over nothing, you honestly don't have enough information to make that pronoucement and it is not right for you to excercise power you don't have. Something that is important to someone else might not be a big deal to you, but don't be so pompous as to think your opinion is the one that counts to govern other people's lives. Some people are over dramatic and some people are really going through a hard time, who made you God and gave you the right to decide which is which when you don't even know them. But whatever, I am done here.

-Tainted Mikochan

I have stated my comment already and I am hoping that I have not upset anyone. If I have, then I am sorry. It wasn't my plan to get people upset.

whoa..i didnt repost this so dont know how the hell this happened, but tainted we went over this and you know how feel and i know how you feel. things were taken in the wrong way..and missunderstood. i just dont understand how this was reposted again.

Sorry, dominque, didn't mean to bit your head off . . . again. I seem to have a bad habbit of that! *begs forgiveness*

-Tainted Mikochan

oh don't worry about tainted, it's all good, i mean there's no harm no foul. i undersatnd why you got upset again. i just don't understand how it got reposted..it's a mystery. hope all is well with you though.

-dominique

If I knew WTF this was all about.