How do I say it?

  • Polly
    18 years ago

    ooh this is hard... im not great at telling people how i am feeling so im not sure what to say... so you want to tell her you feel like killing yourself, why not say just that? 'i feel like killing myself, please help or something along the lines of that... if shes a counceller she shouldnt mind you being so blunt i guess?!
    im sorry for how you are feeling, i wish i could help in some way... i hope your counceller will help, just be straight with her and try and say how low you are feeling. i know this won't help the slightest bit and will probably just annoy you, but as hard as it is, please try and be strong. this may be hypocrytical of me as i am a bit messed up right now, but you can help yourself way more than your councellor ever could, you are the one who can change help yourself get 'better' she's just here for support....
    i hope maybe you find some strength and get through this
    Polly

  • mydearestsuicide
    18 years ago

    tell her how you are feeling and say you are really down and your afraid you might do something really stupid. babe if you need to talk to her talk to here, but im here if you need to talk. i hope you get through this

  • Once an Angel
    18 years ago

    I am glad you have a counselor who is willing to help you. This is a hard one. I used to be suicidal and whenever I was my counselor could tell somehow and she would bug me until I spilled, but that was just me, and that was the right course of action to talk because i don't talk about that stuff otherwise. You could tell her you are worried about doing something you will regret, something big and that might help if you don't want to come out and say it. You could say that things are adding up in your life (specific examples about whatever it is in particular,) and see if she gets that. you could direct her to a website about suicide and see if that sends you message. As I am sure you know, the best way to know that she gets what you are trying to say is to be as blunt as possible. Explain how you are feeling, that might help her know how to help you. I mean, this is your life at stake, if this is how you really feel. It is a HUGE DEAL!!! The best thing you can do is be honest with her about how you feel, and tell her you need and want help getting yourself away from that. Until then, keep your friends close and don't go anywhere by yourself at school to keep from falling into tempation. Best of luck to you baby and if you need to talk to someone who has been there my email is: tainted_freedom_from_reality@yahoo.com

    -Tainted Mikochan

  • HansRik
    18 years ago

    Your counsellor needs to know the truth. Just tell you feel that life has ceased to have any value, and you do not with to keep on linving. Be honest.

    I am sorry for being so cold. This is the only real advice I can give. Be honest, and that will get you very far.

  • Lalala
    18 years ago

    I agree, but on what to text, just text to her saying "I feel like killing myself can I talk to you?" If not just replace killing myself to committing suicide. Then she'll know whats going on.

  • jessie
    18 years ago

    Bravo! im glad you're going to your counselor for help. a good way to tell her whats going on is to be straight up. tell her that you're afraid you'll hurt yourself...permanently. tell her whats been going on in your life, so she'll have a better understanding as to why you feel the way you do. i truely do hope things in your life get easier, best of luck to you.

    *tiff*