just something to read & think about

  • Once an Angel
    18 years ago

    I give you ten billion stars for posting this! I love it! It is so true, gosh I wish I had known back when I started, I wish someone had told me.

    -Tainted Mikochan

  • Unforgiven Retniap doolb
    18 years ago

    you want the honest truth...........
    I think this is the first time I really realized how much it has taking over my life.
    Wow

  • **Just Her**
    18 years ago

    i read that before.. and its so true weridly:S! ... but yeah. good post. for ppl who havent read it, give it a try.

  • Allison
    18 years ago

    That was a good idea to post that. I think that it is so true. I've never cut and never had a reason to, but I have friends that do it. Sometimes I wish they would stop.

  • Leah
    18 years ago

    WOAH!! SO.. SO MOTIVATIONAL.. DAYM.. IM DEFINENTLY STOPPING.. ITS MAKING ME FEEL SOOOO BAD.. LOL..

  • Polly
    18 years ago

    :'-(
    how can you say such things? attention seeking? do you not realise how many self-harmers will have just read that, now in tears knowing what a crappy mess there life is because of self harm? pathetic maybe, but not attention seeking?? why would we spend so much effort hiding the scars, when if it were for attention we would want people to see??? you are entitled to have your own opinion, obviously, but you dont have to shove it in everyones faces quite like that...
    i just find it so unbelievable people can say such things....

  • Polly
    18 years ago

    what was that website because it didnt seem to work...

  • ellie
    18 years ago

    OH FUCK DO U NO HOW MUCH ANGER IS U NO BUBBLING UP INSIDE ME...U HAVE NO FUCKING IDEA...YOU ARE AN IDIOT...PEOPLE WRITE POEMS MAYBE BECUASE THEY NEED HELP, AS A WAY OF EXPRESSING THEIR EMOTIONS...NNOT EVERYONE DOES IT FOR THE SHEAR FUCKING PLEASURE OF IT...WHEN PEOPLE HAVE GOT SO STUCK THAT DA ONLY WAY OUT IS BY CUTTING..ITS NOT REALLY THERE FAULT.,..NOT EVERYONE CAN STICK A HPPY FACE ON AND ACT AS IF LIFE IS PERFECT...COS IT IS FUCKING HARD...I CUT...SOMEWASY I WISH I NEVER DID...AND I HAVE STOPPED AND I CAN LOOK AT THE SCARS AND MAKE MYSELF THINK...THANKGOD IM STILL HERE...COS YES SOMEPEOPLE DO DO IT FOR ATTENTION...DOESNT MEAN EVERYONE DOES IT...TO SOME CUTTING HELPS WITH THEIR PROBLEMS, EVEN IF IT DOES MAKE IT WORSE...SO UNLESS U WERE A CUTTER, ARE A CUTTER OR HAVE FEELING TOWARDS EVERYONE ELSE...DEN SHIT THE FUCK UP...COS U HAVE NO FUCKING IDEA....I HOPE U GET THE MESSAGE COS I AM TALKING TO U NOW...DA SELF-CENTERED PERSON WHO SEEMS LIFE IS HANDED TO U ON A SILVER PLATE...FUCK U...COS U SO FUCKING LUCKY, ILL JUST LAF WHEN IT ALL GOES TITS UP...AND UR LEFT ALONE, IN THE DARK, WITH NO-ONE TO TALK...DEN MAYBE...MAYBE YOU WOULD NO HOW WE CUUTERS FEEL OR FELT...
    ok anotehr rant ove...
    peace out..love u al..(for those who no how to feel)

  • Polly
    18 years ago

    Ismail, yes this is a poetry site and not a counselling site, but this is the sadness and depression forum... where that is what you talk about...
    Go ellie i think you made a lush point and i agree! and ismail, cutting may be for attention in some cases,but do not judge everyone who cuts as an attention seeker please.... it just isn't true.
    Polly x

  • Polly
    18 years ago

    ooh by the way 'torn 2 pieces', i think it was a great idea, even if its gonna make cutters feel worse at least it will help people thinking about doing it
    XXX

  • Riffy
    18 years ago

    This was a really good article...It shows the true seriousness of cutting

  • Live, Laugh, Love
    18 years ago

    Ok First of all.. Yeah this is a poetry site but have you read some of the poetry.. It is about cutting.. And this is in the SADNESS AND DEPRESSION FORUM If that article wasn't depressing I don't know what would be And you know what Ismail, yeah some people do cut for attention but do you ever hear about the people that cut to help them with their lifes? No. Because they are not attention seekers.. And No I'm not a "cutter" but I used to and I know how hard it is for those who do it to have to read what you write.. If you didn't like the post, why read it? That was a pretty long article and I'm guessing you found something interesting about it seeing how you decided to make a post.. Get a life and if you want to talk about poetry there is other FORUMS for that.. K

    !^I Love Being In Love^!

  • ellie
    18 years ago

    Oh brother, this is going to be a fun long post...not...

    You are a bitch...ok i did get my point across because the people who posted after me...agreed with me...so i must of done something rite there...and secondily i was shouting, hence the caps locks...and thirdly i was pissed of that u even have the fucking cheek to laugh at others expense...sorry but to me that is not a joke...if it is its a fucking sick one if you ask me!

    N O.K yes cutters are weak that is why we cut, it is the lowest form of coping with whatever is going on in someones life...but hey we are all weak...everybody hurts, everybody cries, it is a sign of weakness...so yh we all suffer...ok so shut up and quit laughing making out that your life is so fucking perfect...because sorry, its not, you have something missing in the head, if u think others emotions and the way the deal with it is funni...cos it isnt...ok it is nothing to fucking laugh about.

    'Cutting is bad, so why protect those who cut....Hmm?'
    because they cant do it themselves....and also we protect (we being those who care) we protect those who cut because we maybe no what they are feeling, can relate to what they are going through, so we try and help them, tell them that life doesnt suck as much as it seems...

    And also dont bother criticising others names....because hey look at yours...??? need i say more...and peoples names normally describe who they are and what they feel...whereas yours, is plain...and boring...i cant really say much because mine is just ellie, but looks can be deceiving...u are not plain and boring...u are evil, sadistic and a bitch...

    And you like making fools out of us...whoop-de-do...try getting a real life...instead of getting the pleasures out of everybody elses...

    Right..Was my point clear this time?

  • ellie
    18 years ago

    Just because you use your name doesnt mean that others have to...and others cant show their feelings in thier name...

    N yes i have brains...and i have a lot more then you, so id advice you to shut up.

    Oh yeah your life is so much better, so much better and perfect then all us cutters on here...you no, there is no need to rub in...no-ones perfect...so why dont you fuck off and stop making cutters, or ex-cutters fell alot more worthless than some alreadsy do...and you are no superior than the rest of us on here...so what right do u have to tell me to...'go and protest for cutting somewhere else' im fine here thanx...

  • master of shadow
    18 years ago

    "Cutting is bad, so why protect those who cut....Hmm?"

    cutting is bad your right, it totally messes up your life. however, it is how many people cope with their lifes and you shouldn't judge them for that. you really think people are proud of what they do? and by judging people you just reanforce the feeling of isolation that cutting creates and make everything worse for them.

    "I like making fools out of you people" may i enquire as to why you enjoy doing such a thing?

    "God you have no brains have you. What you just said to me, made me laugh so loud." what right do you really have to undermine peoples intelegance? do really honestly thing you are that much better than the rest of us?

  • ellie
    18 years ago

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ exactly what i said but makes alot more sense

  • master of shadow
    18 years ago

    your enjoying this arn't you Ismail?

  • master of shadow
    18 years ago

    your bored? welll can i sugest that you find a hobby

  • master of shadow
    18 years ago

    is you find it boring why post at all, just out of interest, why even read it if you find it boring?

  • master of shadow
    18 years ago

    i'm one myself.

    I don't defend it, it is a stupid thing and totaly ruins many peoples lifes. but i also think it is wong to put people down because of it. It's a stupid thing to do and i wish i had never started, which i'm sure is something many others wish too. but isolating us and continually calling us weak and stupid is not going to make anyone stop and is not going to change anyones opinion.

  • master of shadow
    18 years ago

    i dont expect you to give sympathy to anyone. i just dislike the way you seem to be attacking everyone whos veiws dont match your own.

    i am 20 yes, but i started cutting when i was younger and have been unable (despite trying many times) to give it up. yes i'm weak and pethetic, i know this already, and for this reason more than any other i do not expect nor want any form of sympathy off you or anyone else. laugh at me all you want, beleive me i'm used to it.

    i do agree with much of what you have been saying, i just think that you could have said it is a better manor that what you chose to do.

  • ellie
    18 years ago

    The fucking impact that you are trying to give is the wrong fucking impct...because yor just making everybody hate you more...and themselfs...and yes as...someone eklse said...this is not hobbie...how can u call laughing at what others feel a hobbie...and yes i repeat myself...then again so do u...and neway im not getting my point across..well not to u...cos ur such a git who only cs out his own fucking arse...any if you want to laugh and get humor out of this...go get a book on fucking depression and self-harmin...see if youll get the same pleasure out of that....and that way you wouldnt be harming anyone else in your owl little world...

  • Live, Laugh, Love
    18 years ago

    Oh and to the person who calls herself "I love being in love". Lame name by the way....Lol.

    I come to these posts for some fun. And this is funny to me. Oh and I like making fools out of you people.Oh and you used to be a cutter, no wonder...You answered. Have a nice life...K

    Ha.

    You know what!! Your a total jerk!! And you really don't make us look like fools your the one talking crap! Ok if you don't like "cutters" why did you even read the whole post.. I mean come on get a damn life.. You find this boring go do something then.. O wait your probably one of those fat computer nerds who could never get a date so you figure you would go make other peoples life horrible so you could feel better about yourself.. And my name may be "lame" but it's the way I feel. So really get a life, or a date even, But you probably stick to the blow up dolls right???

  • Georgi
    18 years ago

    "When I am bored, I like to stir things up..."

    That one comment alone proved you to slightly pathetic. I suggest that when your bored, you do something productive. Instead of scroll through the sadness and depression forum to try and find another cutter to make fun of.

    ~Geo

  • ellie
    18 years ago

    I can spell, and if you dont wanna read the above i just tell you again...When I am pissed of, i tend to get angry, and when i get angry, i tend to write what I am thinkng, and when I am angry it all comes out, in one go...So yes I tend to start typing fast and I dont even bother to go back and crorect what I have said..So yeah fuck you...Ok...If you are bored...go out in your street...strip naked and open your legs..maybe youll get alot more excitement out of that...

    You say that we don't know the truth or that is what you are implying...We know that people cut for attention but we are not them, we know that people get bored and do stupid things, you'd be one of them, the only person that isnt looking at the truth...Is you...

    Matter closed

    Oh n P.S...You dont have a fucking life...So there we go...did i mis-spell any words...Miss...Bitch

  • Polly
    18 years ago

    'Ismail' you sad bitch...
    let me get this straight.... you are an ex-model, a bi, you have nothing to do, hate cutters, and spend every minute of your day putting nasty, forceful posts on a poetry site.... i believe you commentted that this isnt a counselling site? well neither is it a site for you to shout your opinions about everywhere, mocking people who dont believe the same things as you...
    people all have the right to their own opinion, im not going to waste anymore time arguing with you, you are pathetic, and as for the criticism of my name, gey a life, im not even going to try and explain...
    Polly

  • Polly
    18 years ago

    maybe in some ways yes, but think about it, im 12 and your 19....
    who is the pathetic one? who is the one judging people he/she whatever you are doesnt know?

  • master of shadow
    18 years ago

    just out of interest, can no one post without including an insult of some discription towards someone?

    this is really a pointless argument, i don't know what anyone really thinks they are going to acheive by it. people are alowd to disagree on things, thats just something that happens, but that doesn't have to lead to an argument. this isn't even a structured disagreement anymore, it has just turned into a futile round of insults.

  • Polly
    18 years ago

    hmm ok....
    - end of argument -
    although Ismail would probably manage to have an argument with herself/himself.... whatever.....

  • master of shadow
    18 years ago

    "although Ismail would probably manage to have an argument with herself/himself" lol. proabally.

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    18 years ago

    "I attack anyone who do not have the least bit of common sense. I could have said it in a better manner, but then it would have less impact to the person."

    Exactly. ATTACK somebody. That makes you weak. Loser. You really don't seem 19. You are far too immature.

  • Katey
    18 years ago

    Hey!!
    I so wish that i would have seen this last year when i started!! I'm slowley cleaning up my act though, gods helped me through this, hey doesn anyone hear believe in god???

  • Polly
    18 years ago

    hey. me too, except i never thought of things like that.... thats quite inspirational i guess, :-D