Poll... or venting mechanism... sort of

Which of these is the proper way to go about being a boyfriend:

1) In a group of friends, including your girlfriend, you always acknowlege her first, flirting with her, maybe putting your arms around her.

2) You acknowlege her as much as the rest of the other group, flirting with other girls in the group, yet not as much as your girlfriend. You flirt with her more.

3) You don't acknowlege her as much as your other friends, and even go as far as flirting subtly with other girls and not her.

4) You acknowlege her briefly on some sort of platonic basis, then walk away to go talk to and flirt with another girl.

... ok basically... I'm pissed at my boyfriend.

on 2-4 ,yeah if thats what he did you have a right to be mad at him id be mad at my boy if he did that!

Wel... nevermind... I'm a single woman now!

*uses very come hither tone* "Come here boys"

most proper would be a 1.. but at times io wouldnt mind if he flirted with other chicks.. cuz i know they dedicated to me.. so yeah.. and if he did anything from 3-4.. then that when i would be pissed.. but two was kinda okay i guess.. i get that alot..

#1 would be ideal...but don't look for it to happen every day.

#2 isn't really anything to get worked up about.

#3 & #4...Forget it....he can't be much of a boyfriend.

the first one definately. Everytime me and my boyfriend go out with friends he has his arm around me and everything.
If he did number 2 i'd be kinda peeved cos i mean hes my boyfriend, why does he need to flirt with other girls especially around me?
3 & 4, i would be fuming, and i would probably finish with him in the process.

Well yeah. I broke up with him.
I'm also pretty sure he's gay.

No... I'm pretty damn sure he's gay. He tells me he has a thing for Jake Gyllenhaal and Ewan McGreggor. He also loves musicals. The point of my pole was to show that 1) is the ONLY appropriate option. I don't need to flirt in front of other people to feel special to them. I want to feel special because he should want me to feel special.

I don't mean to offend or defend, but don't assume you know what I'm about, when clearly that's not the case.