So confused.......Hopefully right forum

My brother calls me names and yell at me if I like close the door to hard or something and other times will yell at me for asking stupid questions like are you working tonight? Sometimes he will hit me and it will always leave brusies and I remember a week before school started in 7th grade (last year) he threw me to the floor so hard my cheek was bruised for 2 weeks I have learned to do what he says and not talk to him unless he starts talking to me. But you wouldn't call that abuse right? My father never hit me but called me names and such. Except he used to grab me by my arms and throw me into like a chair. He still does that to my step brother tyler sometimes even if he didn't do anything.In my house I don't talk to people unless they ask me something and it is the same way with me every where except on the computer it's like I'm free and I have a voice........I'm just confused......

julie under no means do you, or your step brother deserve any of that. if you want this abuse to stop, which im guessing you do go get help...dont hesitate. the abuse you endure from your father and brother could get worse, so get out while you can. i would understand if you were scared to do it..or just didnt know if that was the right thing to do, that's normal. however, if you don't get help now whos to say that the abuse will ever stop? my heart goes out to you. best of luck in life and the things to come.

*tiff*

Julie,

Hey baby! This does not sound like a fun place to be in, not at all. *Huggles* I think Tiff has a point though. I know that taking action is going to be scary, but what if something happens? It could get worse, or too late to tell someone. I would find a good mediator, an adult you trust and sit them down with your abusers and talk it out. They need to know what they are doing bothers you and that you will take action if they don't stop. Family is supposed to love you and even if these don't seem that big abuse counts, they are not right and could easily get worse. I would try to understand why they feel that being physcial is good, and do what you have to in order to make them understand that you won't take it. Best of luck to you baby! I am here for you if you need me.

-Tainted Mikochan

My mother and father are divorced and yeah it's contant fighting over everything..........I haven't been to the dentist in 5 years because of a fight over it........finally I'm going next week! I'm going to try to stick it out till July 13 which I think is a Thur. because that is when my brother is leaving for the Navy Seals training........yeah thats how strong he is (he can take me out with his pinky!!!)
My father is weird though he is a drunk from what I remember and I have read in journals he does drugs too. However I can't tell anyone because it's weird my older brother is like a hero in a way because he is the only one who has been through everything with me except the verbal abuse.
My father's wife said he wasn't allowed to go over my father's house because he might hurt them.
He won't hurt them over anything but me every little thing I do is wrong and I'm sick of being the mistake of everyone's life! I'm going to be on my own July 13 and well see then if I'll be able to take it the lose of my brother because he won't come back the same Navy Seals are like machines They are going to turn this teenage kid/old drug dealer into a official USA KILLER!

I think I really have to think about all this

So what do you know about the Navy Seals? Do you know their lol "code"?

*Loyalty to country. Team and their teammates
*Ready to lead, follow, and never quit.
*Serve with honor on and off the battlefield
*Take responsibility for your actions as well as your teammates
*Excel as Warriors...through discipline
*Train for War. Fight To Win and defeat our nations enemies.

Did you know that during Vietnam just two teams had a kill ratio of 200:1 ?????

Yeah my age doesn't mean shit thank you very much and don't assume I a Dum*As* because I'm a "LITTLE YOUNG 14 YEAR OLD GIRL!"

I agree with the person above^ I have looked at your posts and you degrade everyone and most of all yourself

LifeIsSoooBad You know what i read your profile and just because you think people overreact doesn't mean that they actually do if your not going to make people better then why even bother to read this?

ok........is this post even about cutting ???NO
Go "PREACH" your "cutting drama queen theory" somewhere else.

One question though.......what satisfaction do you get out of making people feel worse??
You maybe sick of all this teen drama Shi* but I'm sick of people like you 2........and if you hate all this so much WHY THE HE** ARE YOU HERE!??

...he threw me to the floor so hard my cheek was bruised for 2 weeks I have learned to do what he says and not talk to him unless he starts talking to me. But you wouldn't call that abuse right?

^there are some many different kinds of abuse. physical, emotional, verbal, it goes on and on. so yeah, sorry to tell you this so harshly, but yeah, that is abuse.
srry. if u get help from someone it can do a lot, because like other ppl have said, how do u know it's not going to keep going or get worse?

Your not opposing ideas if your basically saying "I'm right your wrong" thats an arguement DUH!

lifeissooobad-
fuck off. just go away. if you're going to get on absolutely everyone's cases, then why be here? you don't have any poems or anything at all on this site, which makes me think that ur just some major ass who likes to come on here to make fun of those pre teen drama queens, who might actually have real problems. i don't know about your life, but maybe if you actually went through something like julie, then you wouldn't have to be such a bastard about everything. you are being defensive. don't you know that you can give away realistic information in a defensive way? im' sure some of these "cry babies" will back me up on this.
-kathryn

yeah advice..........but you started the whole thing by say..........

"Wow the USA Navy Seals make people a killer. Thats funny considering one of the worlds top counter-terrorists teams is a seal team, Seal Team 6 to be exact. I never knew saving lifes of innocent people was making you a USA killer! I learn so much from lil kids these days! Kid please, sit down and shutup if you dont know what your talking about. It really pisses me off when people make being a soldier seem like its the most worst thing ever, especially a U.S. soldier when their purpose is to promote peace. Shows what a 14 year old knows."

Ok, you're brother doesn't have a very good role model, he see's your dad being drunk, on drugs, being violent and that is all he has to look at and be like. He also has no one to take his anger out on. Maybe he needs councilling. He is likely to be having issues over his father being a *failure* (for loss of better words) and this is how he deals with it.

I have tried talking to him about it and he denys that our father has done any of those things