Why would he do this

Okay, well I was dating this guy. We had a long distanse relationship. He told me he loved me and that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. Well he came up and stayed at my house for a week and a day after he left he called and told me he didn't think it was going to work out. I asked him why but he would just tell me that he didn't want to talk about it. Then the next day i called him just to talk cuz he said we could still be friends and he told me that he wanted nothing to do with me.. WHY IS HE DOING THIS????

Hmm i would guess that he was cheating on you and his other girlfriend got suspicious so now yea
or ok i dunno thats just my assumption dont count on anything i say.
but im sorry this happened ....
And im sorry i couldnt help more ...
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I agree with both Bob and Kori. Get over him. He probably used you to get something. He obviously didn't care about you if now he wants nothing to do with you. There are pleanty of other fish in the sea. This is real life and at 15 relationships don't last forever. You need to get over him and realize he wasn't the guy for you. I've realized that guys who are under the age of 18, don't know what they want. They are confused and need to realize their own mistakes. Give it time and a better guy will come along.

oh my goodness. i'm sorry you had to go through that. he's such a big flaskdf;aldi!! i'll kick his ass for you. but i personally think he did this because he's a guy. there are so many guys like that out there. i'm just sorry you had to be one to have had experience with one. better luck next time. there are great guys out there. unfortunately, guys like him are out there too. girl, don't dwell on him anymore. you deserve better. however, you have to look out for yourself too. dont let go too easily. don't put yourself in a position to be taken advantage of either. guard yourself a little too. but i'm not sure if you should have given him permission to come on to you like that either. especially visits at home for that long if at all. take it easy. hang in there.

well ummm my guess is hes cheatin on you. and when he stayed wit you he realize how much hes gonna hurt you if you find out. so jus start talkin to otha ppl and afta awhile call him so he'll have time to miss you.

k well first off we didn't have sex!! The farthest we got was i gave him oral sex! Umm ya and about him staying at my house. My parents thought he could be trusted because he talked with them abou his intentions with me, which i thought was totally cool. And ya it very well could be the sex thing because i was talking to him on the phone while he was packing to come visit me and he asked me if he would need "Protection" and i told him prolly not. After that he acted kind of wierd. Plus he don't like to make out and i LOVE IT. well i would try to kiss him and he would always turn away. even when it was a kiss on the cheek. i have no idea why but it sucks. The worst part is that he don't even want to be friends and everyone that i have ever dated i am always friends with after words.

~Amber Marie Bolin~