~My~man~

  • ProtectionLove
    18 years ago

    My man and I got into it on thursday, we had a fight! Well, I wanted to hang out with my friend on that day and it was a guy that I haven't seem for a while and I wanted to go get it, so I can get away from my son for ONE DAY, just to have fun with friends. Well, I told my man that I had plans to go hang out with this guy and my man asked to me who it was and I told him that it was a friend, when I ask him with he hangs out with, he says the same thing to me too. Well, he keeped on asking me who it was. I keeped on saying it was a friend and he knew who it was, but he didn't know I was going to hang with this guy. Well, he said that he didn't trust me at all because he thinks that I was going to cheat on him and I wasn't going to because I love my man with everything that I got, and I didn't want to have my relationship go down. We keeped on fighting about it andhe asked me if I trust him and I told him that I didn't because he comes home around 3 to 4am in the morning and doesn't call me when the hell he comes home and when I call him and ask him when his coming home and he said he doesn't know. well, anyways...I told him I trust the guy more then him, I told my man that so I can get him mad because I was so pissed off because I couldn't go anywhere at all, but he can go where ever he wants too, but I can't because I have to take care of my son and he never hepls with anything for me or the baby. He don't give my money for the baby so I can get my son something, but I can't. Oh yeah He hit me too and I have marks by him from hitting me!!

    Was I wrong that I wanted to hang out with this guy?????

    ~Protection~Love~

  • xDryTearsx
    18 years ago

    No you wernt wrong at all and he shouldnt have hit you. >:(
    If you expected him to watch your son then you should have talked to him about it before hand
    and everything
    He should trust you unless you've given him reason otherwise .. but im guessing you havnt ..
    But on the other hand you cant be mad for never going anywhere because it was your choice to have unprotected sex and have a kid there fore your resposibility
    Is he the father? If he is he should be giving you money and everything.
    Well i dunno what im ranting about i forgot already so yea ...
    LoveAlways
    ♥♥NerdyPants♥♥

  • ProtectionLove
    18 years ago

    we plan on having a baby, so u can not tell me that I shouldn't of have unprotected sex, WE PLAN IT...It seems that your puting things on me not my man. My man doesn't do anything for the baby, it's his resposibility too, not just mine. I didn't claw on top of myself and made myself pregnant. It take two to make a baby and It take two to take care of the baby too, you know. Yeah he is the father of my son!! Why are you asking me that!!! He don't give me money for the baby at all, he spents it on shit that he shouldn't of spenting it on. Well, he don't trust me at all...Well, anyways...

    ~Protection~Love~