never had a bf

i'm turning 16 this year and i've never had a bf let alone been kissed!!!i feel like i'm the only one in this world who's never been in love...and i'm scared i'll never get a bf and i'll be alone forever :( :(

lol awwwww dont feel like that. My cousin is 20 years old never had a boyfriend and she is gorgeous she feels the same way you do but you know what just think of it this way. The older you get the more options you have and someone told me once that when you are looking for love your looking in all the wrong plsces...stick to school, friends, hanging out do what regualar 16 years old due and BAM when your least expecting it some hottie is going to fall head over heels for you you watch...

don't rush love. you dont need a relationship to define yourself. or to find yourself. but you can't just leave everything to the guy either. they say that when time comes, he'll find you. but i don't quite agree because if you want something to happen and you don't try to help it either, then it won't really work. give it time. dont want a bf just for the sake of having one. you'll appreciate him more when you get him.

thanx so much i gues ur rite i just feel lonely sometimes but i guess like u said it will happen when it wants to lol i hope its some hottie lol

LifeIsSoooBad-

Look "dipstick", she said she's "turning" 16, not that she -is- sixteen.

Other than that, I agree with you. Stick with school. Kissing isn't all that good and a boyfriend just holds you down.

You still have the rest of your life to fall in love and whatever else you were complaining about.

Edited: Oh and one more thing, I think you're shallow for wanting a "hottie". If you want "love" that bad, you shouldn't be picky.

~Atomic

I beleive that was me who said "hottie", and i also beleive i never mentioned about wanting or looking for love did i? if i did please correct me if i am wrong.

Miss.Scooby

Miss Scooby-

I wasn't referring to you. But you're allow to take offense if you like. I'd prefer that you didn't though.

LifeIsSoooBad-

You clearly stated that she's not 16, but 15. I was just correcting you on that. No need to make racial comments.

By the way, I am Vietnamese, but I don't expect a person of your intelligence to know the difference.

~Atomic

JUST LET YOUR LIFE MOVE AT THE PACE ITS GOING NOW, KEEP YOUR HOPE IN YOUR HEART THEN ONE DAY YOUR WISH WILL COME TRUE, YOU WILL FIND LOVE. DON'T PUSH YOURSELF, JUST TO HAVE LOVE IN YOUR LIFE...LOVE WILL COME AND IT WILL BE WORTH WAITING ALL THIS TIME FOR...IT WILL BE SPECIAL :)

Atomic;

I was not offended, i just chose to take a more formal approach because I wanted to be clear on what i was reading as well as what you were saying...which i now do.
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"Ketchup, your a foreign Chinese person so I understand that you dont fully understand English. I was calling her a dipstick for saying she wants to rush into love. Get it right kid."

"Their all daps whats the difference, and I wasnt being racist, Im just indicating a clear point. They dont understand English as well as others do. And stop being defensive, your always causing trouble"

Well, actually you were being racist. You not only called down on someone because they are of different ethnic background than yourself but you also made a statement stereotyping an community of people sharing a language, religion and or color as not understanding english as well as other do. So let me just say to you that i am only getting involved in this issue because what i have just read that came from your post discusted me i dont tolerate racisim and thats exactly what you said...it was racist. However, Just like those quote "pre teen drama queens" i dont expect you to understand what racisim is because you are defending what you said as a clear point?....Yeah a clear point of racisim.
So instead of telling people to not become defensive and make them seem like the problem causers...mabey....JUST MABEY you should re-read the statement you wrote...read it out loud if need be and really think about it as to how it is interpreted as racisim

so mabey you should do a little research on racism and see what the guidelines are as classifying it and let us all know what you find.

making a point is making a valid fact of information
being racist is your statement

So mabey you should get it right KID!

good day to you

miss scooby

LifeIsSoooBad-

Clearly you are wrong, for I am Asian and I understood what you said perfectly.

You were making assumption about me, because of my Asian heritage, correct?

You say we don't understand English, and in case you haven't noticed yet. What I am typing, speaking, are all English.

You proved me correct when I said I don't expect people of your intelligence to know the difference. And you don't. See?

The Chinese came from China. I, being Vietnamese, came from Vietnam.

Why don't you go practice what you preach? You say I am causing troubles where ever I go.

Ever thought that you are doing the same too?
Unless being a hypocrite is what you practice, -then- I'll just have to hold my tongue.

Miss Scooby-

I apologize for the inconvenience. I thank you.

~Atomic

your a **** jerk off, its people like you that give human race a bad name. You are what society calls an attention seeker. You get some sort of sick pleasure making other feel like crap because it makes you feel better about yourself so let me give you a pointer.

I notice you talk to people with a cocky attitiude, well babydoll, you adress people as kid i also notice. when realistically, in the real world people who have an attitude like that get absolutely no where in life, are most DEFINATELY not respected by others and have the mentality level of a peanut so before calling someone kid look at yourself because thats all you are an overaged child trying to act like a grown up but clearly making an ass out of himself.

LifeIsSoooBad-

I don't have to prove anything, because you are doing a handsome job of it yourself.

Stop addressing me as "your people" and such.

It seems, you are offending more than just me.

~Atomic

thanx mari :)