im so immature... ahh

okay so its official, im a horrible person, so im sortta with this guy. he lives far away and its hard but he ALWAYS tells me he loves me and misses me. i was away for about 5 days and he kept sending me texts about how he cant go on without me and that every day seems like a life time and i cant stand it. i mean more to him then he does to me. so i tried talking to him about it, but what does he say, im soo sorry id do anything for you because i love you. i had so much to say and i cant say it to him wen all he does is apologise. so being the 7 year old that i am, i block him on msn and stop returning his texts and calls. its so horrible i know but the thing is he wont accept us just being friends, hes either in love with me or we dont talk, and at the moment id rather not talk to him. i cant stand being doted on like that. and ive said it before. yet he doesnt get it. we never argue cause he always gives in to me, saying stuff like well usually id argue but after all its coming from you. and i dont like that at all.

ugh im sorry just had to vent.

Hmm maybe you should unblock him and have a heart to heart talk with him. It seems like there’s a lack of miscommunication. I’m not saying that you are, but if you ever led him on, well maybe that’s why he’s hung up over you. My friend has had the same situation. Her’s was an internet cyberspace thing. She likes him, she doesn’t like him. She likes him, she doesn’t like him. You get the picture lol. Anyways, he problem was, she kept playing games and leading him on and kept teasing him. And when he wanted more than a friendship, she blocked him and told him to stop and everything. Well, let’s just say guys and girls are a little different. I think you should make yourself clear and just say what you feel. Say you like another guy or something if you will. But if you don’t want him to keep contacting you and keep saying all this stuff, the best thing to do is talk to him about it; not shove him away. Hope it helps. Good luck.

Wait, did you say that you’re with this guy? Hmm, well then I think that’s the reason why he’s like this. If you don’t want this “thing” of more then friends thing with him, then break if off, you know what I mean? The worst thing to do is to keep him around as your bf when you really don’t like him at all. My other friend was like that. She kept him around for the sake of having a bf. Course we all know how that ends up. I think you two need to sit down and talk. Vent, talk, argue, just get it out of your system. You might need to get an answer or explanation out of him too. Best of luck :)

well not really WITH him. its weiird like i did like him so it was kinda like an unspoken relationship. i know i should talk to him. its just hard. and its funny how you said the whole ' other guy' thing lol cause i did meet another guy but thats not why i feel the way i do. im just not into him anymore. there used to be something there but now im like i cant handle even tlaking to you right now.
but thanks for the advice =) always appreciated.

No prob. Hope everything works out between you. And I think I know what you mean now lol