What do u do when u think he is cheating?

  • xDryTearsx
    18 years ago

    What makes you think he's cheating?

    The above person is kinda right about trust ...
    But in a way you cant overly trust him bcuase then he'll walk all over you
    He will cheat thinking he can get away with it ...

    But sometimes its not true i guess you cant really accuse him unless you have really good reasons ..

  • xmauix
    18 years ago

    The trust thing is right a relationship is based on trust, like i trusted my girlfriend alot cuz i thought she would never do anything, come to find out she gave some guy a lap dance and who knows what else she says thats all she did but i doubt it, but i forgave her so now i have to question everything she does cuz im scared shell cheat on me....i dont know if that has anything to do with this subject.

  • Natalie84
    18 years ago

    Castrate him.

  • Brigitte
    18 years ago

    If my b/f cheated on me i'd hire a bounty hunter to kill him off for me :)

  • Natalie84
    18 years ago

    A bounty hunter? Do you know what bouty hunters do? LMFAO

  • sandra
    18 years ago

    When my boyfriend cheated on me, I believed him cuz everytime I asked him about it He'd tell me that I needed to trust him more. And I did, but sooner or later I caught him. So if you think he is cheating, he probably is... and if he isn't then something must be wrong if you think he is... sorry.

  • AGirlWorthFightingFor
    18 years ago

    Well, you know the adage : If you believe in love at first sight, you never stop looking.

    So, uh, sorry...I don't really have any advice on this. I always trusted...even to a fault.

    But I'd probably ask him first. Then I'd talk to his friends.

    Discover it to be false, I'd apologize to him.

    Discover it to be true...again, this has never happened, so I don't know what I'd do...probably just walk out, let the air out of his tires, and never speak to him again. and take stuff.

    asshole tax.

  • squirttt
    18 years ago

    if you're doubting, ask him. that's the only way to find out. if he's lying, i'm sure you can tell. look at his face. but don't assume too much either. sometimes we all doubt, trust me. but that doesn't always mean he's cheating on you.

  • Natalie84
    18 years ago

    On a serious note from me...if you have to question him you should leave him. You can't spend your whole life wondering what he's doing. My boyfriend and I went to separate clubs last Friday...and I thought not even ONCE about what he was doing as I KNEW he was respecting me and OUR relationship and he knew I was doing the same. If you don't have trust you have nothing at all.

  • Mel
    18 years ago

    Natalie:

    I saw your boyfriend in the club you were talking about. Now who was the girl he was talking to?

  • Natalie84
    18 years ago

    LMFAO HAHAHAHAHAHA That's extremely funny! Gut busting funny! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA He wouldn't think of it.

  • krysten
    18 years ago

    follow your gut ive been cheated on enough to know that you should follow what you feel good example when i thought who i was with was cheating on me and they were meeting in the b room and i followed them to see what was going on they passed it off like nothing and then later my girl told me that had i waited i would've walked in on them making out.

  • authum darkness
    18 years ago

    Sit down with him and look him in the eye. If he can't look you in the eye and honestly tell you he's not cheating, he is and you have to dump his ass!

  • Catty
    18 years ago

    Confront him in a nice way. If he gets bad thats a bad sign because it could mean he is quilty of cheating. But if he is calm about it, maybe you are just over reactiong. Hope i help!