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Oka! i love my boyfriend alot! hes the best!! but how do i know if he rele loves me or not i mean he says it sometimes but i mean its always "love ya" wich i read some where that when most guys say "love ya" it juss means okay i said it already now screw me! and i dunt want that yet! plze help im very confused rite now!

When you guys started saying I love you or .. love ya ... im assuming you said it first .. lol
if he just says love ya ......
then i would assume he doesnt love you as much as you love him
MAybe he is only saying it to get in your pants ...
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if he doesnt say it like he means it then
maybe hes only saying it cuz he thinks its what you wanna hear
I really dont know what to do about it ...
Maybe talk about it or something ...

Hey
no actully he said it first but it was never "i love you " its always "love ya" im like umm shure ya

Ok ok maybe hes the kind of person who's not comfterable with saying it ..... :l
I dunno

yea thats whut my friend said too! but it still makes me wonder yano

Yea i getcha
talk to him about it.
Do you tell him you love him?
I mean if your really close and everything you should be able to talk to your guy
I would striaght up ask him
Why do you say love ya instead of i love you
or something tell him it sounds more sincere or something
i dunno hmmm ...

You're 15...don't be in such a hurry. But if you MUST know why don't you just ask him?

ask him . if he says yes then believe him . trust should b the basis for all realtionships

hmm, i don't know about you, but 'love ya' doesn't mean much to me. and when they write, 'i love u' is nothing either. you'd think that if they really love you, they'd take the time to actually say "you" or spell it out. it takes only seconds. not a lot of work, you know. if he says 'love ya', then he's just saying it for the sake of saying it. tell him that if he doesn't mean it, he doesn't need to say it.

omg! i found out he was with this gurl that goes to my skool ALL night friday! omg that makes me soo mad!! he called me about 3:30 today ( saturday ) bragging about it! omg!

Are you serious? Dude i think he wants to get you jealous. Maybe he wants to get you to have sex wit him. It's possible that he wants you to think he likes the girl so that you will do him. I don't, it's just a thought. Some guys are like that. I mean if you don't give them what they want, they do weird things. I don't know but some guys are really hard to understand. I'm so sorry about that...

Thnx for all the advice guys! okay well last night i was talkin to him till like 3:00am! we were havein a good conversation! and then he started talkin about some gurl names Dawn or how ever u spell it! and hes like were just friends im like yea okay!! yano and hes like seriously and put his friend on the phone and had his friend yell at me! omg it made me sooo mad lol! i gave the phone to my sister and juss walked out side! lol i didnt wanna be in the room right now yenao! and well when i came bck inside he wanted to talk to me! so i took the phone and went out side! hes like why did u do that! im like cuz if i wanted to talk to seth then i would have the millons of times hes asked me to talk to him! b/c my b/f no's i dont like seth even as a friend!!!! and well yea! that made me mad too hes like yea well im sry i didnt mean to he took the phone! im like yea ok!! and well that stuff! and omg he goes oh Mariah told katie something and katie told me and well i cant tell you! and well i was like let me talk to seth!! so i talked to him and seth told me whut mariah had told them! omg that made me mad that he would actully believe somethin like that! juss omg! so yea! i mean i love him to death!!! hes awesome! but last night ticked me off big time yeano!! i still have no idea whut to do!
Love lotz!
:.+.: Megan :.+.:

it sounds like he needs to start thinking with his brain instead of his penis

LoL
I agree.

Well that's just wrong. I agree with those two ^. Give it some time. I mean right now he's just being weird. Try and straighten things out with him and see what happens. I'm really sorry about what he's doing. It must be pretty frusterating.

I was reading one of your poems maybe you should follow ur advice...

"the one u love will always be there and will always care so if ur not together go over if u dare! don't be scared and don't be shy if its meant to be then everything will be alright"

You should tell him how u feel, if he really does care he would try to make you happy, and he will be there for you...