What do you do when you're losing all of your friends?

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    My friend was antagonizing me yesterday and i had no idea why. I got so frusterated by what she said that i started kicking lockers while walking down the hall. The principal asked me to come down to his office during 8th black and tell him what was wrong. I went to 8th block hoping to see my friend and ask why she said that but she was 2 or 3 seats away from me so she didn't have to talk to me. I was gonna talk to my other friend who sits by me but she was ignoring me as well. That's when i decided to go down to see the principal but see that just made it worse because he called my friend down and "talked" to her. That made matters even more wose. Today i came to school and pretty much all of my friends were ignoring me. Turns out she had been telling people i told the principal she threatened me. I knew that was a lie and now because of one little problem that wasn't my fault, i'm losing all of my friends. What should i do? Sorry for writing so much...

  • dollfacex
    18 years ago

    hey
    i have no idea maybe try to make some new friends! or something in the range! ive actully never been in the situation! thank God! i mean i dont have very many friends cuz of the way my skool iz preps and all that crap yano lol well hope everything iz alright!! and i hope yer alright!!
    Best Wishes!\
    Megan

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    Awww thanks Megan. At least one person helped. I understand, my school is the same way. I don't have many friends, but most of the ones i do have are ignoring me. I get rumors spred around the school constantly. I thought this year would be awesome, but instead everything went wrong..

  • obsessedgurl
    18 years ago

    Yeah, definatley get new friends, but choose wisely. Don't just be friends with anyone because you don't want to be alone, that won't help.

  • KellBell
    18 years ago

    YEAH u should totally just get new friends!! better friends tat wont make u feel bad or tat will ignore u!! Tat is wat i did when tat happened to me!! xcept i didn't go to the principal cuz lets just say he would have not done nething!!! so yeah!!

  • KellBell
    18 years ago

    I AGREE ALOT WITH obsessedgurl!!!

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    Maybe have a look at your own behaviour and why all these people dont want to be your friend any more

    "The only way to have a friend is to be one"

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    18 years ago

    It's not that easy to "make new friends"

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    It always has been for me.
    If you want something to change in your life, take ownership of it and start making it happen. Things arent just going to :happen: make it happen. Got o new venues join a sporting team or a new hobbie or something so you can meet people with the same interests.

    It is easy to make new friends if your a honest decent person open to new ideas and possibilites...

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    thank you all for the advise lol...but this was posted about a month ago and i made up with some of them except the one that treated me like shit. I also made some new ones as well so everything is going well. The only problem is i like one of my guy friends. He knows and yeah..ppl say he likes me but idk!!! Thanks again for your advise...