Goodbye... but NOT forever!

  • TragicRomance
    18 years ago

    Okay, I've been in love with this guy for a little over a year and a half now. Since the hurricane, I've bonded with him so much more, but since we lost everything he moved to Alabams. He always seems depressed lately and just isn't the same. And now he's talking about leaving and going into the military. He is coming down on the 10th for a few days to visit but I don't know what to do. It is tearing me up inside but I won't let him know it. Will someone help me?
    ~Duckie~

  • me
    18 years ago

    sit him down talk to him and tell him how you feel tell him your in love with him i know it's easier said then done but you should

  • MBG
    18 years ago

    yeah i agree...thats the best too do i mean you may never get a chance...and you dont want to think 4 the rest of your life that mabye if you would have talked to him things would be different..i jus think you should try to talk to him...its worth a chance...good luck
    -peace-

  • TragicRomance
    18 years ago

    Thanks, but, i don't know why he is acting so different.

  • squirttt
    18 years ago

    i think after a change like that, no one acts the same anymore. i mean like a person might still be acting the same to themself, but differently to others, you know? i wouldnt blame him for being a little "different". the hurricane had a huge effect on many many people, young, old. but the best thing for you to do right now is to, as said earlier, sit him down and talk to him. communicate your feelings. the military is kinda a big change too. but if he feels that it's best for him, what can you do, you know?

  • SatinRisse
    18 years ago

    He has to make a lot of choices right now. You would act different too. With the hurrican and everything, and then deciding if he wants to pick up again and go into the military, away from everyone, he's just confused. That's why he's acting different. Just sit down and talk to him. You might be able to help him out a lot of he's really got a lot going on inside. I'm sure he just needs to let it out.

  • TragicRomance
    18 years ago

    He's coming down from Alabama Friday... I'll see him then and talk to him. Thanks

  • cynthia
    18 years ago

    well what you need to do is just tell him how you feel inside and dont let the chance slip away ok if you really have something for him just tell him he maybe feels the same waty about you the worst thing that could happen is not telling him common girl tell him deal with it do something about it ok well bye

  • TragicRomance
    18 years ago

    Okay, I'm gonna do it on Valentines day!

  • squirttt
    18 years ago

    aww i wish you the best of luck!!!! :D