DEPRESSED!!!

hey...im so depressed today b/c me and this guy that i had been goin out w/ for like 3months broke up with me and i dont even know why he broke up w/ me and ive only cried today and had fake smiles to try and make me feel better and hide from every1 how hurt i am...i want to be happy but i jus dunno what to do to make me happy....can u help??

thanks for the commenet i know it isnt the end of the world i jus feel...alone b/c i...cant talk to any1 about it..

hey elaine, i know people are telling u to deal with it, but i know its not that easy, when u feel strongly about someone, its one of the hardest things to do to let go of the memories, and the good times, and i know ur probably hurting like hell and i hate to say i cant heal a broken heart. What i can say is that i understand what ur going through, and some people may think being depressed over a guy is the most pathetic thing in the world, but sometimes love and relationships can destroy us so much, that we end up hurting. Im here if u need to talk, and try not to listen to neone saying "get over him" or "deal with it"

~Lots of love
Georgi

hey, i know it hurts, but i'm just letting you know lots of people have been through this too, so don't go thinking you're alone. buut, like some have said before me, it's only a guy, there ARE other (and many) to come, so don't let one guy get your hopes down, he's NOT worth it.

enjoy and good luck

orange daisy

Break-ups always hurt, but you move on as well. If he just out of the blue did it, then he's not worth anything. It's ok to cry, but like others have said, don't let it go you down to much. It was only 3 months, and you're young. True love will find it's way to you. Just have faith and don't let one little break up hold you back forever.

Ahh, suck it up.

~Atomic

You will get dumped..its life and like anything else love is not perfect. Getting down about a 3month rtelation ship won't do you any good. 3 months isnt really that long, so just wait good things come to those who wait

JBN

Angie-

Hey, does the two things beside my name looks like cherries to you? I hope not, I was aimming for apples.

~Atomic

A loss has 5 stages to it.
1) Denial
2) Anger
3) Bargaining
4) Depression
5) Acceptance

Just accept that the boyfriend broke up with you and live your life. There's other fish in the sea.

well what i can tell you is not put yourself down just because he broke up with you he is not worth it he is soon going to realized that he lost a good love dont feel depressed its just not worth it dont put yourself down just keep your head up girl and get another guy who respectsyou and love you well bye

http://www.adulthoodwonderful.com/break%20up/get%20over%20long%20term%20relationship.htm

go to that site...it's really helpful...or at least i thought so if you wanna talk email me sometime im pretty sure im about to be in your situation...i've been with my bf for about 6 months and we're definatly losing it...so im sure ill need someone to talk to inna few days ecspecially since its valentines : (...i hope you feel better, you'll be okay don't worry

breaking up is never an easy thing to do, and losing some you care about does hurt..but at the same time it's not worth it to pine over someone who doesn't want to be with you. not trying to sound rude,but i went through stage where i refused to stop loveing this guy..who didn't love me back. it takes alot of your energy and happiness away.

just look at i like this, it happened for a reason..even though it hurt you, you two weren't ment to be. however, there is someone out there for you. so don't give up hope, and what ever you dont shut your heart out to other people, because if you do that..then the broken pieces will neve mend back together. best of luck.

*tiff*

Lalalalala, that's really bad ...um I don't really know what to say other than live life like you're alive!!!!!!!11111oneoneone

hey,
i know how you feel and yeah, breaking up is hard and it hurts and makes you sad and you feel so lonely and if you'll never love anyone else, I am 18 and i split with an ex 2 years ago and i still love him and I havent moved on but it gets easier and the best thing to do is to cry it out and write about it and you'll soon feel happier.
Love Tara-Kay

im sorry sm ppl can b so pathetic, just think of it this way, they obviously have there own insecurities that they make fun of u to make them self's feel betta keep your chin up hope thing's get betta 4 u take care sarah x

NO offense but alot of ppl walk around with fake smiles all the time you can get over guys
You cant get over a loss of a parent very well
A sibling
It could beee sooo much worse just think of ppl that have it worse than you that is what ialways do. None of what i have said happened to me so i aint trueing to get like pitty or whatever i am just saying it could be sooo much worse

XXX Rach