Letting Go???Any Advice???

Ok, me and mi ex fiance broke up 9 months ago and I haven't been able to let go of him at all. I am still as in love with him now as I was then. I have tried everything I can think of. I even moved 3 hours away from home just so I wouldn't have to chance seeing him. Does anybody have any suggestions? This is really starting to tear me up. Thanx in advance for any and all your help

why did you guys break up? Keeping yourself bus is a very good way to get him off your mind, do some extra stuff in life like a hobbie or something (im not to sure wha you like to do) hang out with friends and just keep yourself very very busy! hope everything gets better hunnie!

I think you'll always love him but time can only heal the pain i know it seems hard but just wait it out like the above post said keep yourself busy.

It's always hard to adjust to separating with someone you truely loved.
Maybe you should try getting out of your house and having fun with your friends? Or even try meeting some one new if you think you are ready and comfortable with that.
keep your head up hun.
xoxo.

Thanx for the advice. And we broke up because of an age difference. He is still considered a minor were I am considered an adult and it started to cause a lot of problems. That's why it hurts so bad. We didn't even want to break up.

If you didn't want to break up, then you didn't have to actually breakup. You guys can forget the whole bf and gf and do some things you did while you were a couple.

We weren't allowed to be anywhere near each other. And his mom sent him to live with his dad 4 hours away.

-Find someone else, give your heart another chance at love. It'll be hard but I believe you can do it. I did, and I'm still in love with him but I found someone else and now I'm not hurting so much. Hope I helped a little. -xBeth-x

The advice I can give you is that since you were so deep into the relatonship and you feel this way talk to him because whatever your feeling is probably because you dont know what went wrong and you want to know and until you do figure it out your not going to be able to move on

give it time.
To get over ur past you have to accept that u have a future.
thats how i look at it .
Ur awesome. it will work out. God has someone out there waiting for u ...

Just, basically, what everybody else already said.
Also:
Give it time. Keeping busy helps you not to think about it, but really you need to let yourself think about it and deal with your emotions if you really want to let go. Letting go isn't just something you can do at the drop of a hat. It's something you have to do over and over again, day after day without them. One day it will become easier, but don't expect that day to be soon. Concentrate on what makes your life good, and those other things you love. Don't try to replace him, remember the good times you had and try to accept that he's part of your past... but may not be part of your future. Keep him in your head, even if he's no longer in your heart. Maybe getting away for a few months is a good idea- it might give you a chance to take a step back and consider your relationship.

However... to get over him, then you really have to want to move on. Are you sure you want to let go of him? Think about it, and good luck.

Against.All.Odds x

pixie i dont know where u live.. but age different doesnt mean u should break it off even if there are so many stuff breaking you guys apart. look at me. i got with my girlfriend when i was 21 and she was 16.. now it was hard but its worth it.. now she is 18 and im 23. you should try to make it work if u truly love him.

listen to your heart. other ppl dont know what u go through.. so if u dont take my advice.. its alright.. as long as you listen to your heart..

Ok, well, first I live in IL. Second the age diff. between us is the same as it is with u. Third off, the reason we broke up is because DCFS was goin to take is 3 sisters, put him in a boy's home and me and his mom in jail. I thought that was a good enough reason. Since we broke up, he has changed though. I still love him but he swears he hates me........