Changing For The Better

What does a person do when they both want to change but don't. In other words they know they need to change their lives because its destructive but fear changing because thats who they are and in a way comfortable with that and is afraid changing will not only change the things they don't like about their life but the things they do.

Life is about change. You have to take it as it comes. If you try to stay inside that little box and never change, the society around you will make you crash and burn.

It's like that quote...whoever said it...don't remember....The only thing constent in life, is change.

It's a scary thought, but you will never go anywhere in life if you don't see that you have to change, have the ability to change, and don't grasp it. It might suck. It might be what you've been waiting for. You never know till you take that jump and find out for yourself.

love the comments but the question wasn't pertaining to me but rather a broad question ment to insight thought and conversation...anyone else care to comment?

That is a very deep question, and one that can apply to many situations. I think that if I knew the true answer a lot of things would be different. Fear of change is what restricts so many decisions in life.
To overcome the fear you have to look at your reasons, and know that you will be better after for doing so, seeing it as leaving behind your comfortable habits, however harmful, will only cause you to look back and regret chaning, and probably regressing to where you were before.
Maybe.
I don't know if that has a lot of bearing on what you asked, but it's a response anyways.
*VioletRaven*

Change is good, because you get too keep developing. The minute a person gets into a rut of comfort in negative habbits they are stopping their progression in life and stunting themselves as people. Change is a part of life you can fight or except, so save yourself the trouble and except it. You get no benefit from being stuck in bad habbits and you just thrown your life away for the time that you are unwilling to change and learn. "The day you stop learning and growing, basically the day your progression ends should be the day you die, not before."

-Tainted Mikochan