-sigh- okay, Your HONEST opinions.. thoughts?

  • BeautifulDisaster
    18 years ago

    Hi remember me heh, well okay
    This boy I like a LOT, well up until 2 days ago I was quite positive he liked me too, the signs were there and my gut was telling me so too..
    But then something happened. I do not know what BUt he's changed.

    He was always shy around me and his friends would giggle with him when i walk by and typical stuff like that, and it was really kind of obvious i suppose that he liked me.. and my gut was telling me so too and I didnt want to listen to my instict but it did tell me that.. and now I dont know..

    It all began when i was waiting in front of the door for our class and i was talking with my friends and this other guy .. and my friends pushed me into that guy and then he pushed me back and i talked to him laughing and all and then in class we were laughing still something about that guy but I dont consider myself to be flirting with that guy cause I wasnt..

    but anyways since then my crush has been mean and weird towards me..

    Before he was all quiet, and shy around me and nice and everything but now all of a sudden he is rude. He was mocking my friends and me when we were laughing at that guy and then today we were talking and so were the people ahead of us and he said shut up and i dont know towhom but i think he told my friend and me to shut up .. but he wouldnt look me in the eye when i looked at him after he said that.. he never looks me in the eye..
    And now he's begun hanging out with his crowd of friends and stuff and going back to the old him.. the one that is rude and a jerk basically..
    I know something must've happened to trigger this but..
    I'm confused.

    What is going on with him, why is he all of a sudden mean to me i guess.. or well.. different to me..

    Help me pleaseeee

  • Mark
    18 years ago

    Well, sometimes whenn a guy likes a girl.. he'll be mean to her and try to act tough.

    Or the complete opposite.. it's really confusing, yes, but he might not like you.. some guys just hate girls for no reason and be mean BUT I may be wrong.

    Goodluck :)

  • jess
    18 years ago

    i agree with mark.
    confront him. if he says he doesnt like you then its his loss by the sounds of things.
    xoxoxoxoxoxox

  • Brian King
    18 years ago

    agree ^ the way the human mind is a dangerous place. trying figure out how it works can't be done by guessing ... go to the source and resort to torture if necessary

  • SatinRisse
    18 years ago

    He got jealous. If you were laughing and joking around with another guy, then he might think that you don't like him, but the other guy. You're young...jealousy takes over often. I wouldn't worry to much about it. Try talking to him. If he wont give you the time of day then tell him that he wasn't who you thought he was, and isn't worth your time. And move on with your life. If he's going to treat you that way and you aren't together? Think about what could happen if you guys were together and you did the same thing.

  • BeautifulDisaster
    18 years ago

    I'm too shy and scared to talk to him..how do i make it clear to him i do not like the other guy..

  • SatinRisse
    18 years ago

    If you're to shy to talk to him, give him a note, leave a message on his cell or whatever. If you really like him you'll find your own way of telling him.

  • Jaime
    18 years ago

    If this is the same guy that you have been posting about for months, I suggest forgetting about him. Nothing is going to happen if it hasn't already. If neither you nor him are able to talk about your feelings, how could there ever be a relationship anyways?

  • holly
    18 years ago

    i think just talk to him it makes things much simplier

  • authum darkness
    18 years ago

    I also agree w/ mark. Maybe this is his show of affection. ;)

  • Samantha
    18 years ago

    im mean to the guy im dating and hes mean to me.... thats the way we show our affection... i hate him but i love him to... and the same for him... he tells me how much he hates me everyday... but i know that he means he loves me... cuz thats what we do... so maybe hes just jokein around with you to try to get more attention... just a thought....

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    Just because you're too shy to talk to him, doesn't mean you should move on. He could very well be jealous. Guys emotions are confusing. From what i can tell they don't like to show emotion a lot. I agree that you should write a note or something. If he really does like you and you like him....well odds are something will happen. Good luck with that.

  • *BeAuTiFuLlY*iNaDeQuEtE*
    18 years ago

    don't give up, he's probably just jelous that you were talking to another guy so easily when he finds it so hard to talk to you, and he doesn't want to appear weak infront of his friends
    try and talk to him
    love
    XxFeEBeDeExX

  • BeautifulDisaster
    18 years ago

    im too scared to do anything when hes near me and I am too scared to even write a note
    whenever hes near i get scared and do something stupid which makes it look like i hate him when i dont .. :( ughh

    i am a freak when it comes to boys but like.. ive had crushed before and i wasnt near as scared as i am when hes around :( hes.. different and he means a lot to me and.. ughh

    how long will he be jeleouss its been like a while and he still is acting cold and weird towards me, ughh, how do i get him to tell me what he thinks of me withot actually askign or talking to him:(