i need to know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • star
    18 years ago

    ok i havea few questions

    1) has anyone went to highschool and not have a bf in there highschool years... how did u feel?

    2) this is for the guys... i guess it can be for the girls to but would u want to worry about the personaitly more then the looks?

    3) what are the signs if a guy likes u..?

  • obsessedgurl
    18 years ago

    1) well I'm not in high school yet so I can't tell you, but so far I've never had a bf! It kinda depresses me somtimez, because no guys that i like like them.

    2) Yes, personality is more important than looks. Because you'll be happier with a ugly sweet guy, than a hot jerk, believe me.

    3) I got these off another site: (http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/doeshe.html)

    # He might start talking loudly in your presence or start treating you as one of the guys. (Yes, this is a weird way to show he likes you, but it's one of the most common and strongest signals!)
    # He might also become very shy and mumble when he speaks to you.
    # Then again, he could behave like a real Casanova, praising you for no apparent reason and straining hard to hold a sustained intelligent conversation (often ending in him asking for your phone number or for a date)
    # If he is acting more flirtatious toward you than toward other people at the same event
    # If his friends are paying attention to you when he isn't around (often a clue that this guy talked to his or her friends about you).
    # If he always seems to be around (especially if you get the "instinct" that he's there because of you)
    # If he is smiling while listening to you, and seems to be listening especially "actively"
    # If he seems to look into your eyes a little longer than normally.
    # If he remembers stuff you said before and brings it up again (asking questions about something you mentioned in the past ) - shows he's interested in you

    Anyway, i hope that helpz!

  • star
    18 years ago

    wow.. the last one shocked me!! becuase this guy did remember what i had for 2nd sememster... and he remembered that i told him i was allgeric to something last semester in one of my classes.. but what does it mean he may talk loudly in my presence?

  • SatinRisse
    18 years ago

    1) It wasn't till my junior year that I really ever had a boyfriend. I didn't get my first kiss till I was a junior, and yeah. It's not that big of a deal. I mean it's upsetting when you're always the 3rd wheel, but I've noticed that even though it might just who I am, but I have much more respect for me and my boyfriends, because they are rare. I've seen my friends date a guy for a week, and by the end of the next week be having sex with a new guy.

    2) When guys are younger and less mature they do tend to go for looks over anything else. NOT ALL GUYS DO, but most do. Then as they get older and aren't just in relationships to look good, they start going for personality as well.

    3) Signs that a guy likes you...they always go straight to you when you walk in a room. They will smile whenever you are around. They could act kind of shy. They'll playfully touch you, hug you, stuff like that. Umm...I agree with the last one that was said in the first answer....they will remember the smallest things and bring it up later. I don't know if anyone will agree with me, but those are the little things that I've noticed from the few boyfriends that I've had.

  • squirttt
    18 years ago

    you don't need a bf to make your life so much better :) seriously. i mean if a person can't feel good about themselves yet, then they aren't the ready-est to have a bf, you know what i mean? dont worry about it. hs is about drama. try to have fun without a bf too. i have one and i love him, but you know, life doesn't end if you dont have a bf or a first kiss yet. take it easy