He Hit Me.. Cause He Was Drunk.. I Thought I Loved Him..

I agree with Bob.

I agree.

Screw love. If he hit you? It's over. Done. Don't let yourself be apart of that percent of young females that stay with a guy because of "love" when he's hit you or otherwise abused you. Love in this case is not worth the pain. You guys are young. If you are that young, and he's drinking, and he hit you....think what will happen later on down the road. You guys will get older, there will be no drinking, and he'll hit you. Plain and simple. Get out now.

I don't want to be harsh, but please listen to what they are telling you. If a fire burns you once, don't put your hand in the flames again. That goes for a lot of things, don't go back to the things, situations, or people that harm you. Please do what is best, even though it will be hard on you emotionally, give yourself time to try and get over him.
*VioletRaven*

the most important thing in life is your health there will always be other guys but there is only one you
keep safe

I agree with Violet and Bob, like Violet said, don't ask for more, yes you can still love him, but hitting you and abusing you, doesn't mean they love you too. I think you deserve better, you sound like a nice person, you deserve someone nice... Who won't hit you.

-*-Cherri-*-

Someone hitting you is wrong, so what if it was when he was drunk? That is his excuse this time, what about the next time he is drunk, will that make it okay for him to hit you again? No way, you deserve a guy to love you and hitting you is definately not love.

-Tainted Mikochan

If he really loved you he wouldn't have even come to your house drunk. Get out of that relationship.

There is no "sorry".

He hit you. Get away from him. Don't play those lines saying "Oh, but he loves me, and he really didn't mean it, and i still love him..."

Love stops the moment his arm swings back.

Think for yourself.

-Nora-

Bob is right. Tell that SOB to leave you along. regaurdless of being drunk or not, you still have some control over yourself. don't let him blame it on the alcohol. the drinks may have made it easier for him, but he done it because he wanted to. beating a woman is also a type of control. you don't have relationships based on who controls what and how, relationships are for two people who love and respect each other.. think of it this way, would you exspect him to still want to be with you if you got drunk and broke his nose???........ good luck honey. TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF and think seriously about whether or not you want to be with him. and always know that if he's done it once he'll do it again.

i agree with everyone here
ALCOHOL IS NOT AN EXCUSE FOR ABUSE!
if he hit you then he is not worth it you can do so much better, anyone could. nobody deserves to be abused. especially by their boyfriend!
xoxXxox pip

try to tell him he was drunk... somewhere where theres people around so he wont do anything to you. tell him wut he did n said 2 u and how bad u felt. if he doesnt understand that means he doesnt care and u shud break up w/ him. i kno u luv him but that's what some abused women say too! u dont wanna be 1 of them, do you?