Need Advice...please help

  • Void
    18 years ago

    Well, if you already gave him that poem, then it's a little too late for any turning back - or any advice really. But one thing I want to say is... Friendship is a really strong thing. It's holding love and compassion for someone like family, but not being in love. It doesn't drive you insane or make you worry. It doesn't make you jealous or break your heart. Do you want to risk it? Will it be worth it? Has he shown any signs of feeling the same way?... If in the end, you do get a chance to have a relationship, will it be more awkward because you guys know so much about eachother, or easy for the same reason? And if that relationship doesn't work, is your friendship strong enough to withstand it? (Do you guys go through things together, because if you go through things together now, it can be assumed that you'd go through a break up together aswell - and you should be able to keep a friendship...If you're distant or secretive in any way, it will make it much harder to stay friends after losing eachother.)
    Anyway, something like this is really a choice you have to pick on your own. Don't react too fast, and don't think about what other people say too much. You need to look to your heart, and think with Your head. Answer your own question. Yes it's confusing, but a solution is always out there - and no matter what happens, it's happened for a reason.(Or so I believe)