who are your real friends?

i really don't know what to do anymore.
i play traveling soccer and i belonged to
a team with all my friends on it which was
fun but i wasn't happy. i got an offer to go
play on the higher team, my friends were
angery when i took it but the got over it
with time. Recently my best friend finally
realized that she wasn't happy either on
the lower team and moved up.[she chose
on her own i had no influence on this] but
all the players on that team think that the
reason she moves was because i was
secretly influenceing her. One of the team
moms even said i was a cold hearted bitch
and that i wasn't even good enough to
belong on the higher team. What do i do??

*Cassie*

Sports are tough sometimes, the parents can be more into the sport itself than thier daughter/son who is the player on the team. I wouldnt worry about it, let them think whatever becasue they dont know why or the real truth about this higher team you are talking about. If it goes on and you cant take it anymore...kick a soccer ball at her face and laugh. lol just kidding dont do that. but I would blow her off and the things she is saying. She will come to release that she is the one being the bitch for yelling at some1 younger than her for no reason

believe me I can realate so much with this
I have been on three premier soccer teams....
and when I was 12 I was asked to move up to a
U-16 premier team......
The club got angry and all he** broke loose...
They said I either had to stay down with the 12 year olds or they would kick me off there team....
I have lost so many great friendships....Itry not to think about it...they whole U-16 team left just so I could keep playing with them and not one person will talk to me from either of the teams I was once on.....and there was one girl her name was nikki and she was such a great friend.....and her mother and father treated me better then my own parents it was like heaven to sleep over her house. but once I moved to the higher team they were spreading rumors about me and my old team came to one of my games just so they could cheer on the other team......

...........I have so many other stories....but I really shouldn't be thinking about them.....

It can leave you Fuc*ed up in the end ruin your love for the game and destroy you getting close to people........or atleast it did for me....and I'm still dealing with it.

this isnt really helping your situation but its a sports story of one of my swim teammates: this kid anemd kyle is on the swim team. hes into alot of sports and is really preppy so i automatically assumed he was a jerk ((i know its bad but yea we all do it)) but when i started actually talking with him and learning about him it turns out his father liek forces him to do al the sports.. he even became the coach for football and swimming the year Kyle started at school it was so horrible. his fgather only pressured him and never let him enjoy the sport.. it annoys me.. and thats why he was 'a jerk' off subject but yea..