do i trust him too much!??

If you know he wouldn't cheat on you, what's the problem?

Your friends don't control your life, you do. So just realise what you already said you know; that he wouldn't cheat on you.

That level of trust is what should be expected in a relationship which means something.

if you trust each other completely just tell him you'd rather he didn't have other girls stay over but only if you think he won't over react and freak out

Personally i think its great you trust him enough to let a girl sleep over in his room. If you don't think he cheated then good for you!! If he has a reputation for cheating then i'd be a wee bit weary, but you said yourself hes your best friend as well, so i think its great you trust him this much. Just hope he doesn't break your trust. xx

I think it awesome how U trusted him, but I have to agreed with some of your friends too. U can't just think that he your boyfriend & trust him with all your heart.

hmm... well.. its definately great that u trust him... but just let him understand theres limits too.. because well.. i trust my boyfriend.. but i just found out last week he cheated on me in the summer while he was in china...

I think the limit are that he allowed to talk with other girls, U know being friends & everything. & he can have other girls over his place when U also there. But don't let a girl spent a night with him again. I mean what if your boyfriend don't want anything to do with the girl, but she are the one who have eye for him.

well, I know a lot 'bout my boyfriend right now, but I don't think I would trust him much if he let a girl stay at his house. So I don't really like the idea of him having girl over, not unless Im also there. But I think it nice that U know most of his mates, just be careful that all ^_^

You say they're best mates though..and as you've said, like no-one would batt an eye lid if his best mate just happened to be a guy and he stayed over, but because his best mate is a girl everybody assumes he's gonna cheat on you. If you think you should talk to him about it, then do so, but if they're best friends then i doubt they're interested in each other. But yeh, if you wanna talk to him about it, do so. xx

well, i think spending the night is a bit too much, my boyfriends best friend is also a girl, they used to go out too... but she has another boyfriend now... i get paranoid when i find out shs styaing over at his house? although when that happens, thats because she got in a fight with parents...

but now, she doesn't stay over unless her boyfriend is there too, because, well i guess both me and her boyfriend are a bit paranoid?? he lives quite far away, so even if he cheated, i couldn't do much about it??

i'm a bit paranoid now, my boyfriend is in china (again) and tonight he is going to have dinner and probably go drink with his colleagues from the summer.. x.x.. which.. i'm afraid something might happen while he's drunk?? it doesn't help how theres no extra rooms in his dad's company's flats and he's staying at a hotel, but i guess its better than those cheap motels with hookers knocking on doors x.x...

I personally would NEVER in a million years let a girl sleep in my boyfriends house AND in his room. But thats you, and if you trust him then its okay, your friends need to stay out of it though they're just probably trying to protect you.

I don't think he realizes how much you trust him. If he is freaking out about that being on your mind then maybe he is keeping something he does not want you to know. He might think you're getting to him. I mean what girl wouldn't care if some girl slept in her bfs house. A DUMB GIRL I TELL YOU. Guys will always be guys, just sometimes theres one in a million who is different. So if your guy is tripping, maybe something is going on. Would he let a guy sleep in your room, in your bed???? The answer is obvious: Only if it's your brother!!!

Im totally agreed with Mandii, U should ask him how would he feel if ( like Mandii say) U let a guy sleep over in your room, I bet he would totally think something happen, & be even more clingy than U ^_^

Ok....in my oppinion trust is the main key to a relationship, but that would make me angry knowing a girl spent the night in his room. It's good that you trust him so much, but I'd tell him its only a one time thing because of what it makes you think and how you feel about the whole thing. friend or not shes still another girl. So it wouldnt make me feel comfortable either way. So let him know how you feel and tell him you trust him but thats just not something that you want to happen again.

~Kac~

To be honest, aslong as they're not sharing a bed what's the issue kids?

If you are wonderin bout it now then deep down u prolly not comfortable with it. U should trust him but i think it would possibly be good if u say somethin i think it would show that u CARE!!

then just tell him not to let girl in his room all the time. U feel uncomfortable ^_^

Okay you know what? If he doesn't understand why you care, If he doesn't understand why that's not right, AND if he thinks he can just go and do that, then girl you gotta let him know that's not how it goes. If he still tripping (if I were you) I'd do it back to see how he likes it, and if he tripping bout it then tell him "see how I feel?" Problem solved!!!

Aww yay!
i knew he'd react that way. guys are so stupid sometimes. Oh well, glad everything is okay.

congratuation, now he know how U feel ^_^

If you know he wouldn't cheat, then why did you post this? It's is good to trust him that much. There is a such thing as trusting too much, but I don't think you're doing it. Listen to your heart, not the people around you.