I NEED ADVICE ON THIS!!

I met this guy 3 years ago on a party-line, and we talk almost everyday. He lives not to far from me, (since we met on a party line he's in the same city.)
We were gonna meet before but the problem is he is like way older than me. He's like 28 or 29 and I'm only 16, he thinks I'm like 19 though cause of my cousin, she told him that.
And he has seen pix of me that I sent to his email, and he says I'm really pretty and all that so obviously he believes what my cousin said.
He tells me it's up to me if I wanna meet him, and I really do but what do I do?
I'm confused.
We have been talking almost everyday for the past 3 years and have so much in common and can talk about anything.
Age has never come up except the one time he was talking to my cousin.
Should I meet him or what?
I don't know.
SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME, THIS IS KILLING ME!!

Well, If he likes you for who you are as a person, then age should not matter. But, when you meet him and he finds out your real age, he might want to wait until you turn into a legal adult for his comfort or what not. But, he might not. He might like you for who you are and it will be all good. I don't know if you both like eachother in a friend way or a love way so I can't really tell you what to expect from him. But, it is your choice if you want to meet him or not.

Thanks for the advice!!
Well, see he always tells me that he wants to tell me something more about his feelings for me but he says he doesn't want to scare me off.
I can honestly say that I love him, it's sounds so crazy to me because I never met him.
How can you love sum1 you never met right?
Well, I think I do.
And I think he does to.
But I jus don't know what to do.

Lins is right in a way, that he might loves you for who you are and not your age..

BUT, to me, i think he would be pretty pissed off/mad/sad if he finds out about your real age because i would.. if i was him and i found out about your real age, i wouldnt know what to think except that you lie.. a little lie can be so BIG, you know....

not to sound a little harsh, but he likes the 19 year old you, not the 16 year old..

i may be wrong. maybe he doesnt care about age.. but some guys at the age wanna have a relation w/someone 18 or 19 and up.....

it depends on the guy, ya know. if he does like you. he would accept it but he dont, he would be mad.... so yea..things like that.. ms has more advice than me.. so

Okay......... I disagree! Im sorry but I disagree tottaly!!!!!!!! Uh sorry i have been there done that before... maybe its me but i dont think just because you have been talking to him for 3 years means anything..... But i do have a few questions
A) Have you seen a picture of him.
B) Have you talked to him on the phone.
C) Do you even know if hes really the age he says he is?!?!

See just because you talk to him online dosnt mean you really know who he is and what hes really all about.....I dont know i dont agree with this at all..... domt you even see the news read the newspaper plp our age younger aqnd older get raped murdered ect... from meeting plp online and on party lines and stuff like that!!!!! see thisw logicly before you do something stupid....... thats all I have to say and take it from my point of veiw.... ive had it happen to me!

okay, first, i have seen his picture, i talk to him on the phone almost everyday!! And I am always ME when i talk to him, i never act like sumone else, ans trust me i know! i do watch the news but this guy is telling the truth, i know everything about him, i know where he lives, where he works and i just wanna finally meet him, i'm just not sure, you know?

OWWWWW....Sammie....dang...lol...

Valerie,
I think it's good that you know him, talk to him, that's great!
I'm 16 gonna on to 17, and I sorta agree with everyone in some points that is. Even though it's dangerous just a lil, but if there is "Love" in the case in this then my happy for you! Things can change though later on, i'm just sayin it could change!!! And I think you sorta know what I'm tellin u.

I have a question for you:
"Are you ready to meet him, yet?" =p
**Why I ask is that everyone can tell you so many idea's that you have to know what do you want, first?!?!**

~!~!~!~!~angel-711~!~!~!~!~!~

dont listen to them girl i met a guy like that 2 and now he is the father of my baby and its not all ways that bad if u trust ur self anf u know him anof 2 trust him then i say go for it and i mean i love him and in about a year and a half we r going 2 get married and i mean he is the best thing that ever happend 2 me so i say go for it and he could be ur husband someday

Hey I'm sorry to say this but U already began your relationship with a lie if were U I would go talk to him but say that you're 16

** Alexander **

hmmm...well i guess i agree with Alexander!!!...

im no help but if i were you i wouldn't take that chance to meet him if hes more then 10 years older then me i trust no one

jackie

mostly guys

Well, I get all of your points, but, see the thing about being at high-school level, I'm really not, as bad as it sounds I have a one year-old daughter and we have tons in common. LOL, but maybe sparkenbroke is right. I don't know I'm so twisted, because I have a feeling that if he sees I am only 16 he will be so turned off!! LOL, maybe sparkenbroke is right...again!!
I am still not to sure. but I have been contemplating it alot!