I need some advice

  • Bridgette
    18 years ago

    I have been with this guy for a year and about a month ago i found out he cheated on me. So we broke up but we got back together within a week. Well he went to this literary meet thing and I heard he got another girl's number and he said it was just a dare. But I can't trust him, and its not the first time something like this has happened. I love him alot, but i can't stop thinking about all that he's done. Some of my friends say I should dump him & others say I should stay with him and try to work it out. But I want to see what other people think. & also, he blames ME for ruining our relationship...wtf? Any advice will help. Thanks!

  • xx5OUL
    18 years ago

    That's true ^^. Why would you be with someone who can't even respect you enough to stay true to you? And you've been together for a while (a year, right?) and that's a pretty long time, so why would he cheat on you now? If my boyfriend ever did that, I would dump him. There's also that trust issue, if you can't trust him, do you really think you should be with him? All relationships are based on trust, aren't they? But I don't know, I'm just telling you what I think.

    anyway, enjoy life and good luck.

    orange daisy.

  • Gwen
    18 years ago

    I have to agree with Sarah, dump him. just imagine having a boyfriend who cheated on U all the time makes me pissed off. last month I just dump my boyfriend cuz he was flirting too much (he did not cheat), & he got jealous all the time, & it annoy me, so the relationship is over. Now I have a new boyfriend & he is just a sweetheart, Im so glad I dump my ex. So if U don't dump him, U can't never find a guy that is even better than him. ^_^

  • Bridgette
    18 years ago

    Thanks everyone's advice. I'm seriously considering dumping him because it's just not worth it anymore. I love him & I want to be with him but I'm tired of being sad and depressed all the time because all I can think about is what he's done to me. But anyway, thanks for the advice!

  • Gwen
    18 years ago

    no problem, we just want U to be happy & hope that U will find someone that is even better than him & bring U lot of happiness ^_^