A Decision

i am on this complicatd situation. I know i am silly. I dont even know why i bother to post my problem.

I like this guy...unfortunately over the net. I tell you it's just not some silly infatuation. I always thought of him day and night. I confessed him I love him and then he said it just wouldnt work, i was hysterical at that time, i cut myself twice crying myself to sleep. Then i decided i would rather be his friend than lose him over some silly love. So days went and go until I met the other "girl" of his life. she told me they have a close relationship and that she loves him back. And I knew by then, my life was shattered. And then i asked him if he loved her back. and he said yes, by then, i was completely shattered. but i tried to keep my composure. Now i am deciding to leave, forget him and never be hurt or stay, be with him, with another girl and ne hurt.

Well, i know thats long. I hope you have the patience, i would appreciate your help

hey i am going through the same thing!! its really hard and i am trying to figure out what to do, if u want to talk to me about this e mail me brittany_broome@hotmail.com or add me to msn
ttyl xoxo

you should be happy that he found someone he loves and love him back..

i know that you are hurt and you'll feeling like the whole world is falling onto you.. but just because he doesnt return the kinda of feelings you have for him means that he loves you any less.. he loves you as a friend and nothing more. isnt that good enough??

i admire you tho because you confessed your love for him. i, on the other hand, never could.. you should be glad that you told him how you feel towards him.. like me, i regret it, no i dont regret it. i just wish i was more like you.........

Thanks for your advice.... and i think you are right, i should be happy for him.

You know, it took me alot of confidence. But you know, it is better to confess your feelings than rather bottle it up. Coz sometimes you cant just forever keep your feelings to yourself.And you may be too late when he/she have someone else already. It sucks when you know that he/she has another one. so yea...like that...dont bottle it up forever...

Oh and brittany, i'm on yahoo. so i could just e mail you. Thanks by the way

to Vanassa, i should be the one thanking you.. so thanks! (^_-) but you know, i guess the reason i bottle it all up inside me is because im afraid of rejection. how he would react. how he would treat me differently. and so on..... but, yes thank you! i'll try not to be afraid....