ok i need help

Heya, i know what its like to self harm and always wanting to stop, but u always seem to go back to the blade. I used cut, for about 3 years i cut, but now ive stopped, because i actually wanted to be able to show my arms in public and not feel so hidden. Now im having the time of my life, i feel so free and theres always a smile on my face. If you ever need any help, you can contact me at beautifully_mistaken_@hotmail.com, i have msn. good luck and take care xx

It sounds like you need lots of help...

Why don't you go to the insane asylum, because you are just one of many statistics in here.

Tal: Go to a website and read it yourself, there are different reason, most of them lame....

hey how about you try excersising or something active like that or maybe call up a friend to talk when you feel like self harming....

Just try getting yourself invovled in a program/activty/group. Find your interests and work from there. Your school might have some stuff to offer and outside of school. I have been cutting for about a year an a half and Im trying to get myself invovled and i have. Just so you come home later on in the day and usly activities or sports help get your mind off the bad things. If you want to talk more Im here for ya! Have a good day

Aw, Sorry to hear that you are upset. I know exactly how you feel, I am a cutter too, I allways tell my self "this is the last one"..but..it never is, All i can is really..when u do it, try n think of the people your hurting, i know its hard, but just try n hang in there, But maby wen u feel like doing it, go for a shower or a walk, something that might take your mind off things, hope all goes well..take care
-natz

hmm tal, its more then what it looks like. what people tell you about it giving you a feeling of control isn't crap, it's true. same goes with anorexia and bulimia..its a "you cant make me eat", "you cant make me stop cutting" that type of a thing. honestly, I know a lot of people who "trend" cut, because 'everyones doing it' and I also know people who are attention seekers. me not being one of either of those. I do agree it is stupid to cut because others are doing it, or for attention.