somethings wrong

i had a rather large crush on one of my friends for 2 years. we got close, he messed me around, but we never went out. hes got a girlfriend now, and im over him, but its been a year, and i havnt met anyone iv felt a connection to since!

whats wrong?

This is just me talking here, but my gut says that you might still holster some deep feelings for him. I mean after you had 2 years of a crush on him you might have developed a deeper bond for him, unknown to you. Even though I have told you all of this I sadly do not know what you can do about it, or even if it is right, but all of that you must decide or others could help you with it. Do not assume I know what I am saying but after years of experience of friends telling me their problems, I am pretty sure of this. Take it easy my friend, and don't worry, things will be ok.

First of all, there is nothing wrong with not "feeling" for anybody after a year. If you're sure you're over him, don't try to rush into anything, it might just get you hurt. However, you also might just be TELLING yourself that you are over him and you (like the person said above me) might still have deep feelings for him. But, that's just my opinion.

Good luck.

orange daisy

i thought that myself, but i'v been with guys since, i jsut haven't "felt" anything.

Ruby

I think you really had feelings for him and still do. Sometimes you have those feelings but can't bring yourself to say it. You're not always gonna get that "feeling". It only happens when you really care about the guy. Just go with your instincts. If you have any feelings for him left, you should tell him.

i think you still having strong feelings for him way deep down in your heart. MY best idea would be to maybe talk to him about it. Tell him your not tryign to start anything your just trying to figure this out. Tell him you think you still have strong feelings for him and that you need his help to get over them. I dunno it might work, I hope so. Best of wishes. = )

lots of love
*~*becky*~*

he has a girlfriend. i don't know, i mean, i really thought...

but this is not good. i cant talk to him, it would be to strange.

Ruby

If you don't talk to him how will you ever know if there is something there? You never know...i mean he could like you too.

theres nothing wrong with you it just takes some time to find mr. right. you cant go find love let love find you.